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  • Calculating macronutrients: Your calorie, protein, carbs and fat targets (to lose weight or gain muscles)

    Several years ago, in the supermarket where I most often buy groceries, I picked up some packaged food, looked at the nutrition facts label and said to myself: “I want to know exactly what these numbers mean”.

    I’m so happy I did that, because learning about macronutrients (proteins, carbs, fats) was some of the most valuable knowledge I ever acquired about dieting.

    So, I want to share with you, in a very structured and simple way, all the important basics of macronutrients that every single person should know.

    Among many other things, learning how to read nutrition fact labels and understanding macronutrients (macros, in short) will help you to:

    • Easily calculate when you are in a caloric deficit or surplus, depending on whether you want to lose weight or for your muscles to grow.
    • The percentage of proteins, carbs, fats and sugars that you intake and how to fine-tune your diet according to your dieting goals.
    • Realize how much sugar (or toxic trans fats) there is in almost every food, easily identify junk food outside fast food restaurants (it’s everywhere) and avoid empty calories.

    I suggest you read the article on how to find the perfect diet before reading this one.

    Calculating macronutrients is extremely important when it comes to dieting

    First of all, don’t get fooled into believing that calories and macronutrients don’t count. There are many people out there trying to convince you that prehistoric people didn’t have a clue about calories (I was one of the people who believed in such a philosophy).

    It’s absolutely true that prehistoric people didn’t know about calories, but they also didn’t have milkshakes, French fries, candies or even fruit in such an abundance as we have it today. On top of that, they were moving all day. Times have changed, so counting calories and macros can be really beneficial.

    When it comes to dieting, the quality and quantity of food are what matters. Both of them matter.

    Quantity (how much you eat – calories) is important when it comes to losing weight. Quality (what type of food you eat) is important when it comes to growing muscles, enjoying a high level of energy, having good digestion, staying healthy, and so on.

    Trust me, I experimented with this on my own skin. I was on a vegetarian, vegan, fruitarian, macrobiotic, paleo and keto diets and many others, and the same rules apply over and over again (more about the rules in a moment).

    I experimented with exercising and zero exercise while on all the different diets. I got very different results. Here is a simple chart that shows completely different body compositions on different diets:

    Diet Macros Weight Body fat
    Standard diet High carb (50%)

    Low fat (30%)

    Mid protein (20%)

    90 kg 25%
    Fruitarian diet High carb (80%)

    Low fat (10%)

    Low protein (10%)

    69 kg 18%
    Current diet Low carb (30%)

    Mid fat (30%)

    High protein (40%)

    82 kg 16% and going down

    Let’s not forget, every time I started to exercise while eating the same quantity of food, my body fat went down and my good moods went up.

    Before we go to the calculations, there are only five rules that you must remember:

    1. If you want to lose weight, you must be in a caloric deficit. If I exaggerate a bit: I did get fatter while eating only oranges and avocados if I ate too many calories. No matter what you eat, how many calories you consume has a big influence on gaining or losing fat.
    2. You can get yourself in a caloric deficit by eating less (consuming fewer calories) or exercising (burning calories). It’s much easier to restrict calories than burn them. You can so easily eat 500 calories but it takes an hour of working out to burn the same amount. A good rule of thumb is that it takes 10 minutes to burn 100 calories. There’s a saying that you can never out-train your diet and that six-packs are made in the kitchen. But …
    3. When you are in a caloric deficit, your body burns fat and muscles. That’s why it’s essential to also exercise while dieting. With exercise you build muscles, speed up your metabolism, improve your mood, burn additional calories, and so on. The right combination of strength, endurance and flexibility training will give you the best long-term overall results.
    4. The unfortunate challenge that comes with exercising is that your appetite goes up. Consequently, you must be more disciplined about how much you eat. There are several tricks for eating less , but increasing the amount of protein, complex carbs with lots of fiber and the healthy fats will keep you fuller for a longer period.
    5. If you want your muscles to grow, you need to increase the protein intake. But that’s not the only important thing. If you want to preserve your health in the long term, the quality of the food you consume also matters. Limiting sugars, refined grains and trans fats is mandatory for a healthy living. So up with proteins, fibrous foods, healthy fats, and down with sugars, trans fats and processed food.

    In the end, remember that the combination of exercise and dieting is what works best. And when it comes to dieting, you must know your macros – (calorie), proteins, carbs and fat intake. There’s no doubt, counting calories and macros can be really beneficial. Now let’s learn how to calculate them.

    Nutrition facts label - calculating macronutrients

    Step 1: Calculate your recommended daily caloric intake or TDEE

    Everything starts with BMR. BMR stands for the Basal Metabolic Rate. It’s the number of calories your body burns only by existing. Your BMR depends on your weight, height and age. If you don’t exercise or move at all, your target calories would equal your BMR.

    But as we said, exercise is a must; or at least moving around as much as possible (walking, biking, jogging, playing basketball etc.). By exercising and moving around, you burn additional calories and speed up your metabolism.

    You won’t believe it, but you burn calories even when you eat food. It actually costs energy to digest and absorb food. That’s called the Thermic Effect of Food or TEF (or sometimes SDA or DIT). Combining your BMR with the calories you burn through physical activity and the calories you burn while eating leads us to Total Daily Energy Exposure or TDEE.

    TDEE = Calories you burn just by existing + calories you burn to process food + calories you burn by moving around and exercising

    If your calories consumption equals TDEE, you will neither loose nor gain weight. TDEE is the number of calories that lets you maintain your weight.

    There are many BMR/TDEE calculators out there, so I recommend you experiment with several of them and see what kind of calculations you get. As an even better alternative, let’s do the calculations by hand, since it’s not really hard.

    Practical examples

    Now the fun begins. Let’s calculate my ideal BMR and TDEE as an example.

    Calculating your BMR

    To calculate your BMR, we will use the Katch-McArdle formula, which looks like this:

    P = 370 + (21.6 * LBM)

    LBM stands for the lean body mass (in kg).

    Lean body mass (LBM) is all the weight that you carry which isn’t fat. In other words, how much you would weigh if you had 0% body fat (it’s theoretical, because you would die without any body fat).

    To calculate your LBM you need two pieces of data: your weight and your body fat. You can get both with a good smart scale (approximate) or by using a regular scale and body calipers (more accurate).

    Here is the equation for calculating your LBM:

    LBM = (100 – % Fat) / 100 * Weight

    Let’s do a practical example. Here is my current data:

    • Weight: 82 kg
    • Fat: 16% (oh boy do I want to get that down to 12%)

    My LBM = (100 – 16) / 100 * 82 = 68.8 kg (let’s say 69 kg). That means I carry 13kg of fat around (82kg -69kg = 13kg).

    And my BMI is 370 + (21.6 * 69) = 1,860 kcal. If I don’t move at all, I use 1,860 by merely existing.

    Calculating your TDEE

    The next step is to calculate the TDEE out of BMI. It’s a very simple calculation. The more you move, the higher your TDEE is and the more calories you can consequently eat. Basically, you multiply your BMI with a number depending on how often you exercise.

    Activity Multiplier* (general)
    Sedentary 1.1 (1.2)
    Light exercise: 1 – 3 times per week 1.2 (1.375)
    Moderate exercise: 3 – 5 times per week 1.35 (1.550)
    Hard exercise: 6 – 7 days per week 1.45 (1.725)
    Very hard exercise: 6 – 7 days per week 1.7 (1.9)

    * The multiplier is a little bit lower than generally recommended based on observations of experienced trainers

    Now I can easily calculate my TDEE. Since I do moderate exercise 3 – 5 times per week, this is how I calculate my TDEE:

    TDEE = 1,860 * 1.35 = 2,511 kcal (let’s round that down to 2,500 kcal)

    TDEE is the number where I won’t lose fat or gain muscles with the same level of exercise. But that’s not our goal, which leads us to the second step.

    Step 2: Your target calories based on a dieting goal – losing weight or gaining muscles?

    Usually there is a goal behind a new diet – to lose weight or to gain more muscles. That requires a little additional math effort because you need to calculate your target calorie intake. But it’s simple math, I promise.

    Here are the rules to follow:

    • If you want to lose fat/get toned (also called cutting): The overall goal is to lose fat with a minimum loss of muscles. Remember, when dieting your body eats muscles and fat. To achieve that goal, it’s recommended to train 3 – 5 times per week (to preserve muscles, speed up metabolism, burn additional calories etc.) and be at around a 500kcal deficit every day with your diet. You should eat around 20% fewer calories than you burn. You should train with weights and add cardio to your weekly training schedule.
    • If you want to gain muscles/get big (also called bulking): The goal is to gain muscles while gaining a minimum amount of fat. To achieve that goal, you should again exercise 3 – 5 times per week, mainly doing weightlifting and HIIT training, and be in around a 300 kcal surplus per day (around 5% to 10% above your overall calorie intake).

    As you can see, it’s quite simple.

    If you’re skinny or want to focus on muscle growth, you bulk (caloric surplus, weights, little cardio) and if you’re fat, you cut (caloric deficit, weights, a little bit more of cardio).

    Unfortunately, when you cut, you are losing fat and muscles (especially if you don’t exercise at all) and when you gain, you gain fat and muscles. You just want to make sure that it happens at different rates, in favor of gaining or preserving muscles. That’s why exercise and sufficient protein intake are so important, but more about that later.

    Below is the table to help you decide if you should bulk or cut:

    Current body fat (Men) Current body fat (Women) Diet type Calories Exercise
    Lower than 10% Lower than 17% Bulk + 300 kcal Weightlifting,

    Little cardio

    Over 15% Over 22% Cut – 500 kcal Weightlifting, More Cardio
    11% – 15% 18% – 22% First cut to 10 – 12%, then bulk

    or

    First bulk, then cut to 10 – 12%

    Below are some general recommendations on how to choose the right path, if you currently fall into this category and you have plans to look better in the mirror.As you can see in the table above, there are two paths to take if you’re around 11% – 15% of body fat (18% – 22% for women) – first cut, then bulk or vice versa.

    Go for the “first cut, then bulk” path, if you:

    • Love cardio exercise or it’s summer time, when you can do a lot of cardio outdoor sports
    • Never lifted weights and you first need to learn how to properly lift
    • Like to eat a lot and need to learn how to respect caloric limits (to not overbulk)
    • Would like to get rid of the excess fat hanging off your body
    • Really easily gain weight

    If you choose this path, you should be doing moderate cardio (some sport you really enjoy outside the gym), learn how to lift weights properly with a personal trainer, and discipline yourself to follow your caloric targets. You will be losing fat, but you’ll also see your muscles get toned.

    Go for the “bulk first, cut later” path, if:

    • You already have good aerobic endurance and you are eager to lift weights
    • It’s winter time and it’s harder to do cardio exercise outside (running, hiking, swimming etc.)
    • You did research on beginner’s lifting programs (like 5×5 Stronglifts), have proper form or enough knowledge to lift weights (otherwise get a personal trainer, please)
    • You have no problem following a strict diet
    • You would like to gain muscles (look bigger) rather than go for definition
    • You lose muscles really quickly

    In such a case, you should do almost no cardio (well, you want to do a cardio sport you enjoy at least one time per week), focus on lifting weights, and eat enough protein. Your muscles will start to grow, usually quite fast in the beginning.

    It takes around 2 – 3 months to see the first results (on both paths), but beginnings always give the fastest progress if you do things correctly.

    Lean (toned), big (muscles) or natural (without steroids). You can only choose two.

    Now let’s get back to my case. I managed to cut down from 22% to 16% fat in the past year or so. But that’s still not enough to start with clean bulking and focusing solely on muscle gain. Thus, during the summer, I’ll still be in the cutting phase. That means a 500 kcal daily deficit. :(

    Let’s calculate my target calories:

    • My TDEE = 2,500 kcal
    • Cutting = 500 kcal deficit
    • My target calories = 2,000 kcal per day (and in the bulking phase, that would be 2,800 kcal)

    How fast will you be losing fat with a daily 500 kcal deficit?

    Approximately 7,700 kcal equals 1 kg of fat (or 3,600 kcal for one pound of fat). It’s just an approximate number (there’s a big fight about that online!), not an exact one, because your metabolism can slow down, it’s harder to lose fat with a lower body percentage, it depends on your macros etc.

    But it’s good enough to give us some very general direction. Now let’s do the calculation:

    • 500 kcal daily deficit = 15,000 kcal monthly deficit (500 kcal * 30 days)
    • 15,000 kcal / 7,700 = 1.95 kg. That’s almost 2kg of lost weight a month, the upper healthy limit for weight loss.

    Exactly what I want and need.

    Step 3: Calculate targeted calories per meal

    Now that you know your targeted daily caloric intake, you can easily calculate your meal caloric targets. That’s especially beneficial for not overeating on snacks.

    You will soon see why your snacks should be around 200 kcal on typical 3 big meals, 2 snacks diet. It’s sad but one bigger snack can get you away from your caloric targets and your fat won’t go anywhere.

    There are some standard eating patterns that people follow that we can use in our calculations:

    • Standard three big meals and two snacks
    • Three big meals without snacks
    • Two big meals and two snacks without dinner
    • Six smaller meals

    Now let’s do some calculations for my targeted 2,000 kcal daily consumption:

    6 meals 3 meals + 2 snacks 3 meals + 0 snacks 2 meals + 2 snacks
    Breakfast 20% – 400 kcal 25% – 500 kcal 33% – 660 kcal 30% – 600 kcal
    Snack 15% – 300 kcal 10% – 200 kcal 20% – 400 kcal
    Lunch 20% – 400 kcal 30% – 600 kcal 33% – 660 kcal 30% – 600 kcal
    Snack 15% – 300 kcal 10% – 200 kcal 20% – 400 kcal
    Dinner 20% – 400 kcal 25 % – 500 kcal 33% – 660kcal
    Post workout 10% – 200 kcal
    Total 2,000 kcal 2,000 kcal 2,000 kcal 2,000 kcal

    I love to eat often and a lot, and my blood sugar levels drop fast, which is why I follow the first option of having 6 meals more or less equally combined.

    Sometimes it’s quite a challenge to squeeze six meals into an 8-hour timeframe while following an intermittent diet. But you definitely don’t suffer from hunger issues in doing so.

    If you go for bigger main courses (breakfast, lunch, dinner) and have snacks in between, be careful not to over-snack. Make sure your snacks are around 200 kcal, otherwise you can quickly miss your macro targets.

    Beware of empty calories

    You consume empty calories with all the foods that provide zero nutritional value. These especially include soft drinks, candies, biscuits, cakes, jams, jelly, syrups, and so on.

    Don’t forget to count such (liquid) calories if you consume them during the day. Empty calories can quickly get you over the caloric limit. One sugary drink (soda, juices) can quickly amount to 200 kcal.

    Now the fun begins. It’s time to learn the macro goals for the favorite foods you eat most often.

    Proteins, carbs and fats

    Step 4: Define your macronutrient goals according to the diet you follow

    We discussed all the important basics about the calorie intake. Calculate your TDEE and go for a deficit if you want to lose fat or for a surplus if you want your muscles to grow (in combination with eating enough protein and regular weightlifting).

    The next step is to dive deep into calculating the right amount of protein, carbs and fats to consume daily with every meal.

    • Macronutrients: Protein, carbs, fats
    • Micronutrients: Vitamins, minerals

    Before we start with any calculations, let me explain the basics of the three major food-building blocks (macronutrients or macros), why they are important and what the best food sources for each category are.

    Macronutrient Best for
    Protein Building muscles
    Carbohydrates (carbs) Primary source of energy
    Fats Hormones, nerves, tissues, vitamin absorption

    Secondary source of energy

    Protein – building blocks for your muscles

    Your body is made mainly of water and protein. Proteins are chains of amino acids. We know approximately 20 different amino acids and 9 of them can’t be made by your body, but need to be consumed with foods.

    The major role of protein is to build new tissue and fix broken down tissue. They also help fight off infections (amino acids such as glutamine). If you don’t consume enough protein, your body starts to tear down your muscles to get the sufficient amount of protein.

    Animal protein sources Plant based protein sources
    Lean meat

    Fish and seafood

    Low fat dairy

    Eggs

    Whey protein

    Nuts

    Greek Yogurt

    Nuts

    Chia, hemp and other seeds

    Beans

    Lentils

    Seitan

    Tofu

    Carbohydrates – the more complex and fibrous the better

    Carbohydrates get turned into glucose and are the main and primary fuel for the body and brain (as sugar). Body breaks carbohydrates down to burn them as an energy source.

    We know simple carbohydrates and complex carbs (whole foods with more fiber and micronutrients). It takes a longer time to break down complex carbs and consequently they don’t spike your insulin levels.

    It’s not hard to guess which ones are healthier. Complex carbs, of course. The biggest problem are refined simple carbs that mess with your insulin levels and are so easy to consume in abundance (think crackers, for example).

    Complex carbs (good carbs) Fibrous and starchy carbs (good carbs) Highly processed carbs (bad simple carbs)
    Whole grains

    Brown rice

    Oatmeal

    Quinoa

    Veggies

    Fruits

    Lentils

    Beans, peas

    Sweet potato

    Refined grains

    Sugars

    Honey

    Syrups

    Soft drinks

    Candy etc.

    Fats – essential for your body to function and excellent fuel

    Fats (or fatty acids) are especially important for hormone balance, cell growth, nerve function, healthy tissues, some micronutrient absorption and for protecting your organs. We know saturated (animal sources), polyunsaturated and monounsaturated fats.

    Usually there is one dominant type of fat, and that is how food is categorized. And let’s not forget about trans fats, which are absolutely bad for you. Trans fats are created when polyunsaturated oils are altered through hydrogenation.

    Fats can also be a source of energy for your body (on a keto diet).

    Good fats

    Monounsaturated

    Good fats

    Polyunsaturated

    Fats to limit*

    Saturated fats

    Worst food

    Trans fats

    Avocado

    Nuts

    Olives

    Olive oil

    Some seeds

    Flax seed

    Hemp seed

    Some nuts

    Salmon, sardines

    Beans

    Eggs

    Fish oil

    (they stay liquid in colder temperatures and contain lots of omega-3-6)

    Fatty meat parts

    Red Meat

    Diary

    Butter

    Dark chocolate

    Tropical oils (coconut, palm oil)

    Margarine

    French Fries

    Potato chips

    Crackers

    Everything fried

    * There are contradictory studies on whether saturated fats are bad for you. Many diets recommend you limit saturated fats to 10% or less of your daily calorie intake (no more than 20 grams).

    On the other hand, the keto diet doesn’t advocate any restrictions. Listen to your body, what you prefer, but be careful because if you are not on keto, you can easily overeat on saturated fats.

    Simple guidelines for what to eat

    As you can see, the tables above include three food types that need to be avoided or minimized:

    • Everything with added sugar
    • Highly processed carbs (sugars, refined grains, sweets, cakes etc.)
    • Foods with trans fats (everything fried, crackers and similar snacks, margarine etc.)

    And almost every diet agrees to include the following in your meals:

    • Veggies and fruits (the latter in moderation)
    • Healthy unsaturated fats
    • Drinking enough water
    Experiment with different diets
    Experiment a little bit with different diets

    Everything else is up to you and what works for your body and other factors (beliefs, culture etc.):

    • If you are vegetarian, you will eliminate animal proteins and saturated fats
    • If you are on a keto diet, you will eliminate carbohydrates and focus on eating fats
    • If you are on a macrobiotic diet, you will focus on complex carbohydrates
    • If you are on paleo, you focus on eating unprocessed food
    • If you follow a standard diet, you will mainly eat carbs, and so on

    The foods to experiment with and see if they work for your body:

    1. Animal products (protein source for muscle growth or a source of fat)
      1. Meat – poultry, beef, lamb, pork etc.
      2. Dairy – yogurt, cheese, butter, milk etc.
      3. Eggs
    2. Fish and seafood (protein source for muscle growth)
    3. Grains (complex carbs for energy)
    4. Beans, legumes and lentils (complex carbs for energy)
    5. Nightshades – tomato, peppers, chili, eggplant
    6. Coffee
    7. Food supplements

    The ratio between macronutrients

    The point of this article is not to advocate any diet in particular, but rather to teach you how to do macronutrient calculations.

    So, let’s look at what the most popular diets recommend about how much protein, carbs and fats you should consume:

    Diet type Protein Carbs Fats
    Standard 15% (mid) 50% (high) 35% (mid)
    Fruitarian 10% (low) 80% (high, fruits) 10% (low)
    Macrobiotic 10% (low) 70% (high) 20% (low)
    Low-carb 40% (high) 10% (low) 50% (high)
    The Zone Diet 30% (high) 40% (mid) 30% (mid)
    Keto 20% (mid) 10% (low) 70% (high)
    Paleo diet 40% (high) 20% (low) 40% (high)
    Fitness community 40% (high) 40% (mid) 20% (low)

    Well, as I said, you have to do a little bit of experimenting to find the diet that works best for you. I would just recommend you don’t go into any extreme. I currently follow the paleo diet with carb cycling, but you will have to experiment on your own.

    Now the next step is to get the actual grams for each macronutrient. To calculate that, we need yet another piece of data:

    Macronutrient 1 gram = number of calories
    Protein 4 kcal
    Carbs 4 kcal
    Fats 9 kcal

    With that piece of data, it’s very easy to calculate how many grams of each macronutrient you should eat. Let’s do the calculation for my 2,000 calories, based on the 40P/20C/40F split that I follow after a little bit of experimenting.

    I also do carb cycling, but that would only complicate things.

    Macronutrient % of calorie intake kcal grams
    Protein 40% 800 kcal 200g
    Carbs 20% 400 kcal 100g
    Fats 40% 800 kcal 90g

    Now we have the exact targeted grams of protein, carbs and fats to intake. Let’s now do a few safety checks to make sure the calculations are okay.

    Are you eating enough protein for muscles to grow?

    It’s completely up to you to find the right ratio of proteins, carbs and fats that works for you. But the one thing you want to make sure is to consume enough protein to preserve or grow your muscles.

    As we said, proteins are responsible for muscle tissue and if you don’t consume enough protein, your muscles start to break down.

    The recommended consumption of protein for muscles to grow is in the table below. I also added minimum recommendations for fats consumption, and the range for the carb intake. Commonly, people get enough proteins with using a protein shake.

    So you can do the calculations the other way around as well.

    • First calculate how much protein you want to consume and how many calories equals that.
    • Then calculate the fats you need and the rest are carbs.
    Macronutrient Recommended consumption

    (per body mass in kg)

    Protein (for muscle growth) 2.3g – 3.1g (1g to 1.4g per 1lb)
    Fats At least 0.5 g (0.23g per 1lb)
    Carbs From 1g to 3.1g (0.45g to 1.4g per 1lb)

    (on keto, your carb intake should be less than 50g per day, moderate amount of proteins and mainly fats)

    I weigh 82kg (180lbs), so let’s do the calculations:

    • 200g of protein equals 2.4g per my body weight. Checked.
    • 90g of fats equals 1.1g of fat per my body weight. That’s more than the 0.5g minimum. Checked.
    • The rest are carbs, which I cycle. I eat around 1.2g of carbs per my body weight.

    The last step is to calculate approximate macros for every meal (there are only general directions to meet by the end of the day).

    Meal Calories Protein (g) Carbs (g) Fats (g)
    Breakfast 20% – 400 kcal 40 20 18
    Snack 15% – 300 kcal 30 15 14
    Lunch 20% – 400 kcal 40 20 18
    Snack 15% – 300 kcal 30 15 14
    Dinner 20% – 400 kcal 40 20 18
    Post Workout 10% – 200 kcal 20 10 9
    Total 2000 kcal 200g 100g 91g

    Remember, these are not strict rules, only general directions. Of course, some of my meals will be more protein-based, others filled with more carbs or fats. But at the end of the day, I should hit my macro targets.

    Here are some additional directions to follow:

    • If you drink whey supplements, don’t consume more than 30g of protein at once. Crossing the 30g limit with solid food is not a problem.
    • It’s good to have a planned meal with healthy fats every day, since it’s much easier to eat carbs than fat.
    • Try to consume protein before and after a workout (in a few hours’ time frame) and as your last meal. Whey supplements after a workout might also help you with quick recovery.
    • If you want to aggressively lose weight, you can temporarily cut carbs and eat more fats. It works really well for some people. They don’t eat carbs for 3 – 5 days and then they do carb loading. Carb cycling can also be a really good solution.
    • For some people, the best time to eat carbs is with the first meal after you wake up and after exercise, but you will have to experiment with that.

    When you are eating what type of food is not really that important. There’s a great article by Precision Nutrition explaining the nutritional hierarchy of importance:

    1. How much do you eat? – Calorie control, not overeating
    2. How you eat? – Slowly and mindfully, without distractions
    3. Why you are eating? Hunger, emotional eating, social pressure
    4. What are you eating? Macros and food type
    5. When you are eating? Skipping meals, pre/post workout

    And we are almost at the end – a slightly adjusted table of how I plan to achieve my daily macro targets:

    Meal Protein Carbs Fats Calories
    Breakfast 30g 10g 30g 430
    Snack 30g 20g 20g 380
    Lunch 50g 10g 15g 375
    Snack 20g 40g 30g 380
    Dinner 50g 10g 5g 285
    Post Workout 30g 20g 1g 209
    Total 210g 100g 91g 2059

    Step 5: Get to know the macros of the food you most frequently eat and prepare a plan

    It’s not over yet. At this final step, the fun continues. You know your macro targets – calories, protein, carbs, fats.

    Thus, it’s time to hit these targets as precisely as possible at least by the end of the day.

    To do that, you need the following data:

    • A list of the foods you most frequently eat (for different meals): I suggest you prepare a list of all the foods you eat based on your daily meal plans, a meal log or your standard shopping list.
    • The weight of foods: That’s the hardest part, but for a week or so you will have to weigh everything you eat on a kitchen scale.
    • Macro values for every food: You get the macro values on a nutrition facts label, in different online spreadsheets or software applications. You can find many recipes online that already give macros for the whole dish and can help you do the calculations quicker.

    As an example, let’s look at the approximate values of the food that I regularly eat:

    Protein-based food

    Food Quantity kcal Protein Carbs Sugars Fats
    Lean chicken 100g 110 23.0 0.0 0.0 1.2
    Lean beef 100g 160 22.0 0.0 0.0 7.0
    Curd 100g 130 11.0 4.0 3.8 8.0
    Sea bass 100g 199 18.0 1.0 0.0 2.0

    Carb-based food

    Food Quantity kcal Protein Carbs Sugars Fats
    Banana 100g 90 1 23 12 0.3
    Blueberry 100g 60 0.7 15 10 0.3
    Broccoli 100g 34 2.8 6.6 1.7 0.4
    Chickpea 100g 165 9 27 5 2.6
    Buckwheat 100g 345 13 71 1 3.5

    Fat-based food

    Food Quantity kcal Protein Carbs Sugars Fats
    Egg 100g 200 13 1 1 15
    Salmon 100g 193 20 0 0 11
    Avocado 100g 160 2 9 0.5 15
    Almonds 100g 650 55 14 4 21

    Based on that, you build your typical meals. Let’s look at the example of my favorite lunch meal:

    Food Quantity kcal Protein Carbs Sugars Fats
    Beef steak 150g 240 35 0 0 11
    Broccoli 50g 35 3 7 2 1
    Quinoa 25g 90 4 15 0 1
    Total 365 42 22 2 13
    Targets 375 kcal 50 20 0 15

    As you can see, we are approximately in the macro targets for my lunch. I could add a few almonds to the dish and it would be perfect.

    The next step is to:

    • Make calculations for a few combinations of your favorite dishes (breakfast, lunch, dinner, snacks)
    • Upgrade your favorite dishes to meet the macro targets (very approximately)
    • Combine the dishes in the way that you get to your daily targets (quite precisely)
    • Prepare your weekly dieting plan
    • Do the same for the bulking phase, carb cycling and any other variations

    You can do the calculations in a spreadsheet (download the template below) or in any food tracker, like MyFitnessPal.

    I recommend you do it in a spreadsheet, especially the first time, to get a feeling of how calorically different food is and what macronutrients it’s based on. Afterwards you can set up the tracking system in one of the apps.

    It took me approximately 15 – 20 hours to build my standard meals and do all the calculations. But it was definitely worth it. I never imagined how many calories there are in some food and how quickly and easily you can get in a surplus.

    To really follow the calculations, you can make a few rules for yourself that you strictly follow. For example:

    1. Approx. 2.5g of protein, 1.2g of carbs, 1g of healthy fats per 1kg of mass (200g P, 100g C, 80g F)
    2. Eat a meal every 3 hours, and every meal should include proteins (7:00, 10:00, 13:00, 16:00, after workout)
    3. 0% trans fats, below 10% saturated fats, 50% from unsaturated fats (0g saturated, 8g- saturated, 40g+ unsaturated)
    4. 60 – 90 GI carb 30 min before (10% carbs) and after a workout (40% carbs), all other carbs below 60 GI
    5. No carbs 5h before bed
    6. 3-5 servings of fruits and veggies, no fruit juices
    7. 4L of water per day
    8. Eat 80% healthy, 1 big cheat meal per week

    After you master the basics, you can additionally focus on how much fiber, sugar, trans fats and saturated fats you consume. And after that, tracking your micronutrients is an additional recommendation to make sure you get all the vitamins and minerals.

    I hope this blog post helped you clarify some things around macronutrients and that you now know how to calculate the perfect targets for your dieting and fitness goals.

  • Not sure which diet to follow? Here is how to choose the perfect one

    If there is a single area of life with the most confusing and contradictory information, it’s dieting without a doubt. There are hundreds of different diets out there, most of them claiming to offer you a miraculous solution for high levels of energy, a fit body and absence of any illness.

    After reading a few dieting books or articles, you have no idea who to believe and what really works and what doesn’t. For almost every type of food in existence, you can find several “scientific” studies that are for and against eating that specific food.

    And for almost every type of diet, there are gurus explaining their stories of how they easily acquired a six-pack, got cured of cancer and now they need only 2 hours of sleep. All you have to do is to click the buy button.

    And you know what. They are all wrong. Because I’m the one who found the perfect diet for you … I’m the one who knows the secret to the spring of eternal youth, building muscles while eating French fries, and a secret supplement that makes you super strong.

    I’m just kidding … But let me share with you my experience with different diets and what I learned about healthy eating up until now. It might help you solve some confusion and give you directions for what really works and what doesn’t.

    I read my first few dieting books before I was even 18 years old. All the contradictory information got me super confused, as it happens to everyone. In all the confusion, I decided to experiment with different diets on my own skin and see what works and what doesn’t.

    In the past 15 years, I followed many different diets and eating patterns. Here are only a few of the major diet types that I did:

    • Standard (American) diet: Sometime up to my 18th birthday
    • Vegetarian diet (standard, lacto, ovo, alkaline): 4 years
    • Vegan diet: 2 years
    • Fruitarian diet: 1 year
    • Raw – plant/fat-based diet: 0. 5 years
    • Macrobiotic diet: 0.5 years (yin/yang principle – whole grain based)
    • Atkins diet: 0.5 years (high protein, low carb, low fat)
    • Ketogenic diet: 0.5 years (mid protein, low carb, high fat)
    • The Zone Diet: 0.5 years (40% carbs, 30% protein, 30% fat)
    • Paleo diet: 1 year
    • The diet I currently follow is a combination of the past few diets and it fits me perfectly. I cycle complex carbs, on non-carb days I eat lots of healthy fats, and my diet is mainly based on meat, fish, eggs, dairy, veggies, nuts, seeds, fruits, ancient wheat sorts and beans.

    Much like I experimented with different diets, I also experimented with different eating patterns – skipping breakfast or dinner, intermittent fasting, carb-cycling, different number of meals during the day, juice fasting, gluten-free diet, not eating sweets at all for several years, eating only low GI foods, and many other eating patterns and diets.

    Before we start, I want to be very clear – I’m not promoting any specific diet and I definitely didn’t invent yet another miraculous solution that will make you super fit overnight. What I’ve learned is that you must experiment a little bit to find the diet that works best for you as an individual.

    But you must be very careful not to go into extremes and, in the end, do more damage to your health than good. Eating disorders and dieting extremes are often a sign of emotional suffering.

    If you find yourself getting obsessed with a certain type of diet and beating yourself up when you don’t follow it 100%, there’s a high probability you’re trying to compensate for emotional suffering by punishing your body.

    Extreme diets, not supervised by a specialist, are most often only a version of self-punishment.

    There are three major goals of this article:

    1. I want to help you solve the confusion of which is the best diet out there. There is no such thing as the perfect diet. By experimenting you must find the one that works best for you (and this article will teach you how).
    2. Even though many diets claim completely different things, there are some general health recommendations that most diets agree with. We will look at these recommendations, because they are absolutely worth following. What to definitely eat and what definitely not to eat.
    3. I want to share with you how to safely experiment to find the diet that will perfectly fit you as an individual.

    To put everything together, we will look at several things:

    • The foundations of a healthy lifestyle
    • The foods you should definitely eat
    • The foods you should definitely not eat
    • The foods to experiment with and figure out if they work for you
    • Perfecting your diet with little tricks

    Healthy living foundations

    The foundations of healthy living – diet, exercise and lifestyle

    You can eat the healthiest diet in the world, but eating habits are only one part of a healthy lifestyle.

    The other two foundations of health and fitness are exercise and a moderate style of living. Much like you can do damage to your health with a bad diet, so you can do it with a lavish lifestyle and physical laziness.

    Don’t expect to solve all of your health problems or to be fit only by following a miraculous diet. Diet is absolutely important, and you can greatly influence your health, fitness and energy levels with proper dieting, but don’t forget about the other two foundations – exercise and lifestyle.

    Diet, exercise and lifestyle all greatly influence your health and fitness levels.

    When it comes to exercising, here are some general recommendations:

    • Find the exercise you dislike the least and move at least three times per week
    • Systematically work on your endurance, strength, flexibility/mobility/stability
    • Learn to breathe properly through your nose, inhaling in the belly
    • Spend enough time in nature, in the sun, playing and enjoying life
    • Make sure your posture is good

    And when it comes to your style of living, here are the rules to follow:

    With regular exercise, you speed up your metabolism, preserve or gain muscles, improve your overall state of health, burn additional calories and brighten your mood. Never forget that you’re always only one workout away from a good mood.

    When I went on a very calorie-restrictive diet without exercising, I did lose weight, but my posture got really bad, my muscles went away, and I certainly didn’t look healthy. A healthy diet with regular exercise works best.

    On the other hand, a moderate lifestyle makes it much easier to follow your diet and exercising goals. If you make sure you’re well rested, in good company with a positive outlook on life, there won’t be any emotional eating, you will have an easier job focusing on your dieting goals, your hormones will be balanced, and your overall happiness will improve.

    So please keep all three health foundations in mind – diet, exercise, and general lifestyle.

    The quest for perfect diet – First narrow down the choices and the confusion will immediately decrease

    The best thing that helped me reduce the confusion around dieting and which foods to eat, was narrowing down my choices. The fewer choices you have, the less confused you can be.

    I simply went through the most popular types of diets and categorized foods into three types:

    1. The foods most diets DO recommend eating
    2. The foods most diets agree are NOT healthy at all
    3. The foods where opinions differ (it means you must figure it out by yourself)

    Now let’s look at these three categories.

    Healthy foods

    1. The foods you should DEFINITELY EAT on a daily basis

    In all the confusion, there are luckily a few types of foods that most diets recommend. These are the foods you should absolutely eat on a daily basis – if possible with every meal, no matter which diet you follow.

    As you probably figured out, green veggies are on the list.

    A word of caution. Eating only the foods on the “safe list” is absolutely not enough for getting all the macro- and micro-nutrients that your body needs. But these are definitely the foods that should be on your plate regularly and will help preserve your fitness and health.

    There are three types of foods that are recommended by most diets:

    • Veggies, especially the green ones, with the exception of nightshades
    • Plant-based healthy fats, mainly from nuts and seeds
    • Fruits, but absolutely eaten in moderation and not juiced
    • We can also add water to the list

    Make veggies your favorite food

    Organic seasonal veggies, especially the green ones, have the best reputation in different diets. But you must go for the organic grown option.

    The only exception among veggies are nightshades (tomatoes, potatoes, peppers, eggplants, chilies), for which some studies assert that they cause inflammation. To keep things as simple as possible, let’s keep nightshades off the list at this step.

    Even without nightshades, there are so many vegetables you can enjoy with every meal:

    • Artichoke
    • Asparagus
    • Broccoli
    • Brussels sprouts
    • Cabbage
    • Carrots
    • Cauliflower
    • Celery
    • Chinese cabbage
    • Cucumber
    • Green beans
    • Kale
    • Kohlrabi
    • Lettuce, chicory, endive
    • Pea
    • Radish
    • Rutabaga
    • Spinach
    • Squash
    • Zucchini etc.

    As you can see above, there are more than 20 tasty vegetables to enjoy with every meal. Veggie soups, salads, green smoothies, and veggie mix side dishes are the healthiest options you should definitely eat every day.

    Veggies are rich in vitamins, minerals and fiber, they are low in calories, and there are so many different tasty dishes you can make out of them.

    Healthy fats will make your cells super happy

    Healthy fats also have a very good reputation in many diets. The most common reason they might not be recommended is because they are dense in calories. But that only means you must eat them in moderation.

    And let’s not forget that there is a big marketing gimmick out there created by the sugar industry, claiming that fat is making you fat, which is absolutely not true. Overeating is making you fat, not fat.

    Below is the list of foods filled with healthy fats that should absolutely be on your shopping list:

    • Avocado
    • Nuts (if you don’t have any allergies and make sure they’re not roasted and salted) – walnuts, almonds, pistachios, brazil nuts, cashew, macadamia, pine nuts and pistachios (exception are peanuts, since they are legumes, not nuts)
    • Seeds – flax, chia, sesame, sunflower, pumpkin, hemp and other seeds
    • Dark chocolate (85%+)
    • Olives
    • Healthy oils – olive oil, coconut oil, flax seed oil

    Fruits are the best way to sweeten your life

    You probably know the saying an apple a day keeps the doctor away. It’s hard to fight such an old wisdom; as long as you eat fruit in moderation. Some diets are not very enthusiastic about fruit, because it contains quite a lot of sugar.

    Unfortunately, modern fruit is grown to be as sweet as possible, since sugar is so addictive. Nevertheless, fruit is still packed with so much beneficial stuff for your health (vitamins, minerals, fiber) that a few pieces of fruit will absolutely do more good for your health than bad, at least in most cases.

    When it comes to fruit, there are a few important rules to follow:

    • Buy organic fruit from a trusted supplier (same as veggies and nuts)
    • Go for seasonal fruit, especially the locally grown kind
    • Eat only a few pieces of fruit per day (up to 5 portions – pieces or small cups)
    • Don’t eat fruit after big meals as a dessert, but rather eat it as a snack between meals (otherwise fruit might mess with your digestion or make you hungry again)
    • Don’t drink fruit smoothies or fruit juices
    • Don’t eat dried or canned fruit
    • If you want to lose weight, temporarily limit fruit consumption
    • Don’t eat fruit if your doctor advises you against it because of some particular illness (diabetes etc.)

    There are so many different fruits that can serve as a delicious snack:

    • Apples
    • Apricots
    • Bananas
    • Berries – blueberries, strawberries, raspberries, blackberries, cranberries (berries are really good for you)
    • Cherries
    • Figs
    • Grapes
    • Kiwis
    • Lemons and limes
    • Mangos
    • Melons
    • Nectarines
    • Oranges
    • Passion fruits
    • Papayas
    • Peaches
    • Pears
    • Pineapples
    • Plums
    • Tangerines
    • Watermelons
    • All the exotic fruit

    Let’s not forget to drink enough water

    Another tip that most diets recommend is to drink enough water. It’s the only way to keep your body and brain hydrated. Thus, drink a glass of water the first thing when you wake up, and then every time before meals and between meals.

    You should drink around half a gallon (2 liters) of water per day, and even more during heat and exercise. Try not to drink out of a plastic bottle (plastic contains toxic chemicals like phthalates, bisphentol-BPA and xenoestrogens) and make sure you always have a glass of water by your side in the office.

    Any other drinks like sodas, fruit juices, coffee, alcoholic beverages etc. do not count as an alternative to water. The only alternative might be un-sugared herbal tea (but not green tea). Still, make sure you drink a few glasses of water every day to become fond of drinking pure water without any taste.

    Toxic food

    2. The foods you should DEFINITELY AVOID

    Much like we have foods that most diets and nutrition experts do recommend consuming on a daily basis, so we have foods that the majority of nutrition experts advise against.

    These are the foods you should not eat at all, or at least very rarely (let’s say less than 10% – 20% of your overall food intake is reasonable and easily achieved).

    Here is the list of the foods most nutrition specialists recommend you avoid:

    1. Foods high in added sugar
    2. Refined (highly proccessed) carbohydrates
    3. Artificial trans fats

    We should add to the list also:

    1. All other highly processed food (sausages, salami, frozen food, canned food etc.).
    2. Cheap foods of an unknown source
    3. Cigarettes, alcohols and drugs

    Sugar is your number one enemy

    Let’s start with sugar. Sugar is your number one enemy and the greatest poison when it comes to food. The problem is because it’s so addictive and added to almost every processed food.

    Sugar is not only in sweets, but also in low-fat foods, fruit yogurts, dressings, bread etc. There’s added sugar almost everywhere. While you can’t completely avoid sugar, it’s smart to limit it as much as possible.

    Foods high in sugar (obvious and not so obvious) are:

    • All types of candies and sweets – muffins, cakes, bonbons, chocolate, pudding, desserts etc.
    • Breakfast cereals
    • Low-fat yogurts and yogurt with fruit
    • Honey, jelly and jams
    • Dressings and sauces
    • Cereal bars and many protein bars
    • Flavored coffees and ice teas
    • Pre-made soups
    • Granola
    • Bread
    • Canned fruit
    • Ice cream, frozen yogurt and milkshakes
    • Juices, fruit drinks and smoothies
    • Sports drinks
    • Soft drinks
    • And so on

    Trans fats are as bad as sugar

    Besides sugar, trans fats are definitely something to avoid. Artificial trans fats are created in an industrial process that adds hydrogen to liquid vegetable oils to make them more solid. Don’t confuse trans fats with saturated fats from animal products.

    Trans fat raises your LDL (“bad”) cholesterol and lowers your HDL (“good”) cholesterol. Not to mention that trans fats cause cancer.

    Here are the foods high in trans fats you must avoid at all costs:

    • Baked goods – cakes, cookies, waffles, biscuits, rolls and pies
    • Snacks – chips, crackers, tortilla chips
    • Fried or battered food – French fries, doughnuts, fried meat
    • Breakfast sandwiches
    • Frozen pizza
    • Microwave popcorn
    • Margarine

    Highly processed food and refined grains

    The third group of foods to be avoided are refined and highly processed carbohydrates and refined grains. Refined carbohydrates are grains that have had all the beneficial stuff removed (fibers, minerals, vitamins).

    Consequently, most diets agree that you should go for the whole, healthier versions of carbohydrates.

    The refined carbohydrates to avoid are:

    • Pure sugar – white or brown sugar
    • Syrups – agave, corn, maple brown rice and all other types of syrups
    • Snack foods – chips, crackers, pretzels
    • Soft sandwich breads and toasts
    • Hamburger buns or hot dog buns
    • Instant oatmeal, pancakes and waffle mixes
    • Again, all types of desserts and sweets
    • Highly processed food with expiration date in years – sausages, salami frozen food, canned food etc.
    • White bread and white pasta (debatable) – but whole version is definitely healthier

    In the end, we must add fast food, highly processed food and cheap foods from unknown sources to the list of unhealthy foods to be avoided. And you already know about the damage that cigarettes, drugs and alcohol do to your health.

    We all need cheat meals

    Does this mean you should never eat these types of foods? Being an extremist or a perfectionist only brings pain and suffering into your life.

    I used to be an extremist and eating something from the list of “forbidden” foods above made me angry and anxious for a couple of hours. The emotional reaction probably did more damage to my health than that unhealthy snack.

    When it comes to shitty food there are a few humane rules to follow:

    • Eating less than 10 – 20% of shitty food is in most cases good enough (if you don’t suffer from any real illnesses or if you are not on a very strict diet). Don’t expect to completely avoid shitty foods, because that’s impossible in today’s world.
    • It takes some energy, planning and a higher budget to avoid shitty food. The environment is not on your side when it comes to avoiding shitty foods. Be prepared for people, commercials and restaurants to not support your desire to eat healthy, rather than the opposite.
    • Always go for the healthiest food available and don’t emotionally beat yourself up if it’s not the healthy choice. Sometimes on a business meeting or when you are travelling, it’s just impossible to eat really healthy.
    • It’s normal to have a pig-out day from time to time (approximately once per month), when you eat all the possible crap food. It’s pretty much the same when you’re emotionally upset and there’s nothing that can calm you down except a big bowl of ice cream. Just make sure that it doesn’t happen daily.
    • If you find yourself eating shitty food for several days in a row, at some point decide to eat only healthy food for the upcoming couple of days. You can always correct choices with your next move.
    • Don’t have shitty food at home.
    Experiment with different diets
    Experiment a little bit with different diets

    3. The foods you must figure out on your own if they work for you or not

    Now you are familiar with the foods to definitely eat and the foods to avoid. That leads us to the last group of foods, with which you will have to experiment a little bit and find out what works for you and what doesn’t.

    Your religious, ethical beliefs, taste preferences and exercise goals usually also have a big influence on what to go for.

    The foods for which you have to decide for yourself (best with experimenting) if you will eat them or not are:

    1. Animal products (protein source for muscle grow or source of fat)
      • Meat – chicken, cattle, sheep, pigs etc.
      • Dairy – yogurt, cheese, butter, milk etc.
      • Eggs
    2. Fish and seafood (protein source for muscle growth)
    3. Grains (complex carbs for energy)
    4. Beans, legumes and lentils (complex carbs for energy)
    5. Nightshades – tomato, peppers, chili, eggplant

    We can also add to the list:

    These are the foods where most of the confusion comes from – many different diets are for or against and opinions of nutrition experts vary.

    There are also many contradictory scientific studies about the effects of these foods on your health. The best thing to do is to experiment a little bit and see what works for you and what doesn’t.

    Here is in general what different diets recommend:

    • Vegetarian diet – no meat products, only plant based protein and fat
    • Vegan diet – no animal products or seafood, only plant based protein and fat
    • Macrobiotic diet – based especially on grains
    • Paleo diet / Keto diet – no grains, beans, legumes or lentils
    • Zone diet – eat everything in moderation (1/3 protein, 2/3 complex and fibrous carbs), no fatty meat

    A simple way to find out what fits your body and what doesn’t

    First eliminate all the foods that you don’t like, don’t want to eat because of religious, ethical or any other beliefs, or that just aren’t very popular in your local environment.

    Then the best way to find out which foods fit your body and which don’t is to write a food journal. In the food journal, you note the following things:

    • Your observations before eating anything – Do you like the smell, does the food looks tasty, do you like the texture and the actual taste? What is your body telling you?
    • Observe your body’s reaction after eating the food – How does your mood change, any variations in energy levels, do you have any allergic reactions, would you eat the same meal next time?
    • Body responses if you (don’t) eat a certain type of food – Do you have any cravings (doesn’t work for sugary foods), how good is your sleep, overall feeling, energy levels etc.
    • Scientific tests – You can measure your blood sugar levels, vitamins and minerals deficiencies, there are several allergy tests out there, DNA test recommendations etc.

    By gathering all the data, you only need several months to find the foods that work for you and the ones that don’t.

    While you experiment, make sure you don’t go to any extremes. If you listen carefully to your body’s reaction, you will soon find the foods that resonate the best with your body.

    For example, here is what works for me:

    • I eat quite a lot of lean meat without fatty parts (saturated fat doesn’t resonate well with me). Eating a lot of meat was quite hard for me, considering that I was vegetarian for a long time. But I have much more energy now and my blood test also significantly improved.
    • I eat yogurt made from goat milk, cheese, curd, but don’t consume butter or milk.
    • All beans, legumes and lentils, work great for me, except soy.
    • I need whole grains for high energy levels – wild rice, barley, millet, quinoa, buckwheat, oats. Refined grains don’t work good for me, at least psychologically.
    • I do eat fish, but not other seafood.
    • I absolutely don’t like nightshades.
    • No coffee for me, but I do drink green tea.
    • I do take a few food supplements.
    • From time to time, I change my dieting regime a little bit to always try new things and options.

    Other factors to consider when it comes to choosing the perfect diet

    You might also have certain fitness or health goals that can influence your choice of foods. Here are some general directions to follow:

    Do you want to grow muscles?

    If you want to grow muscles, you will have to increase your protein intake. The easiest way to get enough protein are animal sources (meat, dairy, eggs, fish, whey protein).

    You can find vegetarian bodybuilders eating only plant-based protein (beans, legumes, lentils, rice proteins etc.), but it’s much harder to get enough protein for muscles to grow.

    That means growing muscles most often requires eating a lot of meat and animal products. Many diets like keto, paleo, Atkins etc. are big advocates of eating animal proteins.

    Do you want to lose fat?

    If you want to lose fat, there are two important rules to follow. The first one is that you can never out-train your diet. Exercising absolutely does help to lose fat, but a six pack is mainly made in the kitchen, not in the gym.

    That’s because it’s so easy to eat 500 kcal, and you need to work out for an hour to burn the same number of calories.

    The second rule when it comes to losing fat is that you should be in a caloric deficit (around 500 – 700 kcal a day). Some nutrition specialists claim that the quantity of the food is not important, only quality.

    That’s not true. Both are important. When it comes to loosing fat, quantity can be even more important than quality, and when it comes to your overall health we must add quality to the equation.

    • I lost fat on a standard American diet by restricting calories
    • I got fat on paleo, vegetarian or any other diet by overeating

    If you want to really lose fat, the best way is to calculate your BMR, TDEE and macros (carb, fat, protein intake) and then track your daily values. In practical terms that means, you will have to restrict calories in your diet if you want to loose fat.

    You will get the best weight loss results by:

    • Following a healthy calorie restrictive dieting
    • Regularly exercising
    • Increasing your protein intake foods rich in fiber
    • Eliminating simple carbs and sugars
    • Eliminating empty calories (sodas, juices, sweets etc.)

    Do you want to run your body on glucose or ketones?

    Your body can run on glucose or ketones. Ketones are alternative fuel, when glucose (blood sugar) is in short supply.

    Ketones are produced in the liver from fat. When your body runs on ketones, your insulin level becomes very low. Your body produces ketones when you eat a minimal amount of carbs and a moderate amount of protein.

    Some people feel great on the keto diet and others terrible. There is no other way to find out than to try it.

    Ketones (70%+ of energy comes from fat) Glucose (energy comes from healthy carbs)
    Fatty meats

    Fatty fish

    Cheese

    Eggs

    Butter

    Oils

    Avocado, olives

    Whole grains

    Wild rice

    Beans, lentils, legumes

    Sweet potato

    Vegetables

    Fruits

     

    The perfect diet

    Putting it all together – the formula for finding your perfect diet

    If we put it all together, the formula for finding your perfect diet is pretty simple:

    1. Eat as many veggies as possible every day (except nightshades, if your body doesn’t like them) – Go for veggie soups, salads and green smoothies. Make sure there is always some type of veggies on your platter as a side dish. Be in love with veggies. No matter which diet you follow, veggies are the most vital food for your health.
    2. Eat fruit in moderation – Fruit contains fructose (sugar), which is not optimal, but it is also packed with vitamins, minerals and fiber. So, eat fruit in moderation, maximum 2 – 5 pieces per day. When you crave sweets, go for a piece of fruit. If you want to lose weight, or your body to run on ketones, limit your fruit intake only to berries and to 1 portion.
    3. Never forget to eat healthy fats – Avocado, nuts (if you’re not allergic), seeds, olives and dark chocolate are great snacks and super healthy foods. You should get at least 20% of your calorie intake from fats, and if you want to run your body on ketones, that should go up to 70% (by adding fatty meats etc.). Fat is not making you fat, overeating is making you fat.
    4. Drink enough water – No matter which diet you follow, make sure you drink enough water. Drink a glass of water with a little bit of lemon when you wake up, and always have a glass bottle filled with water with you. Avoid all other types of drinks.
    5. Make sure that you eat less than 10% – 20% of shitty foods – these are foods high in sugar, artificial trans fats, refined carbohydrates, fast food and all other highly processed foods. They should be consumed as an exception when you have a cheat meal, can’t calm down your emotions or there is nothing else to eat. But don’t beat yourself up after you eat any type of shitty food. Don’t strive for perfection, go for good enough. Be satisfied by choosing the best meal available at a certain moment.
    6. Six types of foods to experiment with – When you know the foods to avoid and foods to eat as often as possible, there are certain foods for which you must figure out on your own if they work for you or not. Your religious and ethical beliefs, local customs, dieting goals, different diets that sound reasonable to you, and especially paying attention to your body’s responses (by keeping a journal) should give you a good idea of what to eat and what not to eat. The following are the foods to find out on your own how they fit your body, beliefs and goals:
      1. Animal products (meat, dairy, eggs) – recommend by all high protein diets (paleo, atkins, low-carb etc.) and keto diet (fatty meats)
      2. Seafood (fish, seafood)
      3. Grains – As a source of complex carbs. A very popular type of diet is also to go primary for grains without gluten.
      4. Starchy food (legumes, lentils, beans) – observe how they influence your diegestion
      5. Nightshades
      6. Coffee
    7. Know your macros – Last but not least, one of the most beneficial things to know when it comes to dieting are macronutrients. That is the number explaining how many calories, protein, carbs, sugars and fats are in a certain type of foods. If you want to find the perfect diet for your body, you have to experiment a little bit with different macro ratios.

    Here are the things you should know about macros and finding your perfect diet:

    1. Your BME and TDEE – your daily caloric consumption based on your height, weight and how often you train
    2. Do you want to be in a caloric surplus (gaining muscles) or deficit (losing fat)?
    3. Your per meal caloric targets (number of meals, calories per meal)
    4. % of carbs / proteins / fats that you intake on an average day
    5. g of carbs / proteins / fats / sugars that you intake on an average day
    6. g of proteins consumed per kg of your body weight
    7. Macro values for your typical meals
    8. Once in a while you can also calculate micronutrients (vitamins, minerals) to make sure you’re getting enough of them

    More about that in one of the next articles.

    Experimenting with different eating patterns

    Last but not least, there are different eating patterns to experiment with. There are a few general recommendations for eating patterns that most nutrition experts agree on:

    • If you want to lose weight, you must permanently change your lifestyle, not only go on a diet
    • Simplify your meals so that you don’t overburden your stomach
    • Eat slowly – it should take you at least 20 minutes to eat a major meal
    • Do not overeat, you know to the point where you can explode
    • Controlled fasting can be beneficial from time to time, check out intermittent fasting
    • If possible, cook your own food

    On the other hand, there are many other eating patterns that you will have to experiment with on your own to find what fits you best:

    • Should you go for a smaller number of big meals (2-3) or a greater number of small meals (5-6)?
    • Skipping breakfast, dinner or any other meals
    • Eating carbs before going to sleep
    • Cycling macronutrients (for example carbs) or supplements (for example creatine)
    • Using food supplements (vitamins, minerals, sports nutrition)
    • How much your Facebook or Instagram friends are interested in photos of every meal that you eat :)

    Here’s what I figured out works best for me, and is an example of how a good personalized diet looks like. I need a very structured eating plan – 6 meals, more or less at the same time. My body runs best on complex carbs, but I cycle them to eat enough fats. It’s much easier for me to eat carbs than fats. Intermittent fasting works really great for me, with the last meal around 5pm.

    In the end, it’s not that hard to find your perfect diet

    When it comes to dieting, the information out there can be really confusing. But that shouldn’t stop you from improving your diet and overall eating habits.

    There is no miraculous diet or a single trick that will make you super healthy and fit. Diets don’t work anyway. What you’re looking for is a permanent healthy lifestyle change, with healthy eating habits, regular exercise and a moderate lifestyle, which all combined provide you with optimal levels of energy, good health and a fit body.

    As you’ve learned, there are foods you should more or less freely enjoy (veggies, fruits, nuts, seeds, water) and foods you should avoid at all costs (fast foods, fried foods, foods high in sugar, refined grains and processed foods).

    From the many different animal products, seafood and starchy foods, you must find the dishes that work best for your body. Having clear dieting goals and knowing your macros can help you a lot when it comes to fine-tuning your diet.

    And eating a bagel from time to time won’t make you super fat or take 5 years of your life away. That’s it. Implementing these simple rules will get you to the top 10% or an even smaller percentage of people who live a super healthy life and follow a long-term endurable healthy diet. And that’s more than good enough.

  • When it comes to losing fat, you can never out train a bad diet

    Absolutely the best way to start losing your fat is a combination of regular exercise and a healthy diet. But there’s a catch. When you start exercising, your appetite goes up. With regular exercise, the consumption of nutrition goes up, so your body wants a higher intake.

    While that doesn’t mean you should stop exercising, it absolutely means that the diet is an extremely important variable in becoming slimmer. Actually, there is a saying in the fitness community that you can never out-train a bad diet.

    I tested that saying myself and it’s 100 % true. When you exercise, you have to pay even more attention to your diet and the number of calories you eat. You mainly lose fat in the kitchen. The gym, on the other hand, helps you feel better and preserve muscles. Losing fat is done 80% in the kitchen and 20% in the gym.

    By the way, I’m trying to avoid the expression “losing weight”, because you want to lose fat and preserve muscles. Muscles are heavier than fat. That’s why you don’t want to necessarily lose the weight that your scale shows. You might weigh more and look better in the mirror if you manage to lower your body fat percentage and increase the volume of your muscles.

    Calories – the quantity of the food you eat

    No matter which diet you follow, there are some universal rules for losing fat. If you want to lose fat, you have to be in a caloric deficit. The quality of the food you eat absolutely matters, but you can get fat even by overeating the healthiest food there is.

    I tried many different diets and eating patterns, and I always got the same result. When I ate too much food, my fat percentage went up. When I was in a caloric deficit, the percentage went down. I tried vegetarian, vegan, macrobiotic, paleo, keto and even the fruitarian diet. The same rule always applied. Too much calories, hello fat. Caloric deficit, goodbye fat.

    Thus, no matter what, remember these rules: If you want to lose fat, make sure you are in a daily caloric deficit. Your deficit should be somewhere around 20 – 30 % of your overall caloric intake (that should count to a deficit of around 300 – 600 calories).

    The calculation depends on your age, weight, height, body fat and the frequency, duration and intensity of your workouts. You can calculate your recommended caloric intake here (called TDEE).

    The bottom line is that such a deficit should give you a result of losing approximately 2 kg per month (7,700 kcal is approximately 1 kg of fat, 500 kcal * 30 days = 15,000 kcal). That’s also the healthy upper limit.

    When you are on a diet, make sure you exercise regularly; otherwise you will not only lose fat, but also your muscles. Unfortunately, body first attacks muscles and then fat. Once, I was only on a very aggressive diet (1,000 kcal daily) without doing any exercise, and my body became flabby, my posture got worse and I absolutely didn’t feel well.

    Nevertheless, expect that training hard will demand greater discipline from you when it comes to your diet.

    MyFitnessPal - Logging calories

    As an experiment, log your calorie intake for a day

    A very fun and educational exercise is to count your calories for a week. Before you put anything into your mouth, log it in one of the calorie trackers. I do that in Excel every year for a few weeks, just to get a feeling about the caloric values of different new dishes I eat.

    You will be surprised at how much calories there are in a chocolate bar, pizza, snack or even a can of tuna. A lot. It’s so easy to get into a caloric surplus. One spoon of peanut butter too much and your calories are way through the roof.

    That’s why there are many ways to trick yourself into eating less that should help you stay within your caloric limits –skipping a meal, eating slowly, downsizing your portions for 20 %, and so on.

    I follow intermittent fasting to eat less food during the day and it gives me great results. But I still manage to gain fat even while fasting for 16 hours, if I only eat too much food; and I eat extremely clean diet.

    As an interesting fact, if you want your muscles to grow, you have to be in a caloric surplus. But you also need a high enough protein intake (2 – 2.5 grams per lean body mass) and regular anaerobic exercise (lifting weights).

    By developing muscles, you also gain some fat because you are in a caloric surplus. That’s why bodybuilders mix bulking (caloric surplus) and cutting phases (caloric deficit).

    Diet cleanliness – the quality of the food you eat

    As important as the quantity of the food you consume is, so is the quality as well. In my experience (your body might respond differently), you can eat a very shitty diet, but still be slim if you don’t overeat. But you will probably feel completely shitty and without energy. That’s why many people are slim, but not fit and even less so healthy.

    I experimented a little bit. I can lose or gain weight from eating only gummy bears. And I can lose or gain weight from eating veggies, fruit and clean protein.

    It all depends on how many calories I eat. But I feel a lot differently when eating gummy bears or broccoli. Obviously, broccoli makes you feel full of energy and life, while gummy bears lead to a big sugar crash.

    The point I am trying to make is this. The golden rule of losing weight, even when it comes to the cleanliness of your diet is: stay in a caloric deficit (while regularly exercising). Period.

    But absolutely also mind the quality of your diet. Some people will tell you calories don’t matter rather what you eat, others that they are the only thing that matters. For your perfect health, they both matter.

    There is no question whether quantity or quality matters more. Mind both of them.

    There is another big reason why the quality of food matters so much. Not only will you be and feel much fitter, it’s much easier to stay in a caloric deficit when you eat a clean diet. It’s almost impossible to overeat broccoli.

    It’s very easy to overeat cakes, pastas, bread and other simple carbs and sugars. Eating a clean diet will absolutely help you respect your caloric limits and, even more importantly, preserve your health.

    You can never out-train a bad diet

    Proteins, healthy fats, complex carbs, veggies and fruits – that’s all you need

    On top of everything that we’ve talked about, you want your muscles to grow, not only for your fat to go. For that, you need enough protein intake. High-protein foods are in most cases clean foods (lean meat, fish, eggs, Greek yogurt, lentils etc.).

    You also need enough healthy fats. Again, a very clean type of food (nuts, seeds, olive oil, avocados etc.). You need something to eat proteins and fats with. Veggies are absolutely the healthiest low caloric food that you should eat with every meal, especially green veggies.

    Finally, we have complex carbs (oats, quinoa, sweet potato, brown rice etc.) and fruits, which will give you enough energy to go through the day and for exercise (if you are not on the keto diet). You should be careful not to overeat carbs and fruits, since they are so delicious. Still, these are all clean foods that your body craves.

    And then we have a long list of not-so-clean foods, the foods you should avoid whenever possible. They might taste good, but many of them make you even hungrier, they mess with your sugar levels, they are addictive and have many empty calories.

    From white flour foods to jelly, sodas, canned foods, cakes and other sweets, salty snacks, fast food and the list goes on and on. These are the foods that will destroy your gym efforts in only a few bites. And they make you constantly being hungry. Mind the calories you eat, but also eat clean.

    It’s so hard to burn 500 calories with exercise

    If you own a heart rate monitor or if you’ve ever been on a treadmill or any other cardio trainer, you know how hard it is to burn calories. It’s so hard to burn 500 calories and so easy to eat them.

    You need to cycle or run for approximately an hour to burn 500 calories. You consume approximately 500 calories with two slices of pizza or one Big Mac. Yes, life is completely unfair.

    Let’s get back to the trap I mentioned in the beginning. You start to exercise, and then your appetite goes up. You aren’t careful about how many calories you eat and consequently you don’t see the results you were expecting. And then your motivation goes down fast. It’s a lousy trap.

    One potential solution is to exercise more. When you exercise more, you burn more calories. But exercising too much leads to injuries, burnouts and fatigue. Especially if you have a demanding daily job. I’ve been there.

    And you need to exercise for an additional hour if you want to burn those two slices of pizza. It’s impossible to out-train your diet. It takes you 1 minute to eat a slice of pizza and 30 minutes to burn it.

    No way can you out-train your diet, the math doesn’t work out. I tried, and all I got were injuries, stress, unhappiness and feeling like a hamster in a wheel, getting nowhere.

    The solution lies elsewhere – exercising in combination with portion control plus eating clean foods that make you feel full. Absolutely exercise regularly, but don’t overdo it. A few times per week for an hour is more than enough, if you aren’t a professional athlete.

    And eat clean foods that make you feel more full, like protein-rich foods and green veggies. And the mother of all weight loss rules – portion control, portion control.

    You can never out-train a bad diet – summary

    Every body is different. You have to find which diet and type of exercise works best for you. By using the search mode principles and with a little bit of experimenting, you can find the optimal solution for you as an individual.

    Nevertheless, there are some major rules that apply to most of us (there are always exceptions, people with an extreme metabolism and genes):

    • When you start to exercise, your appetite will go up, expect that.
    • Don’t only go on an aggressive diet without exercising, because your body will start to wither.
    • If you want to lose fat, you have to be in a caloric deficit (approx. 500 kcal daily).
    • The quality of the food does matter to be fit, but calories matter more for losing fat.
    • If you train longer than 45 – 60 minutes in one session, you risk injuries and burnout.
    • It’s so easy to eat 500 calories and so hard to burn 500 calories.
    • Eat protein-rich foods and green veggies that will leave your belly full for longer. You will also feel much healthier and your muscles will start to grow.
    • Don’t try to out-train your diet. It’s easier to skip that one slice of pizza than go on a treadmill for additional 30 minutes.
  • Daily cold showers will make you healthy, attractive and sharp

    We live in the most peaceful and comfortable times ever; and let’s hope that the future will get even more comfortable with all the technological development, progress in medicine, and social collaboration. Nevertheless, there is one downside to these softer times. We’re all also becoming too soft.

    No matter how comfortable life is, it will never be completely devoid of problems, failures, challenges, collapses, stress and other downfalls. No matter how comfortable life is, time comes when you have to protect yourself, fight, stand up or persist and not give up. No matter how comfortable life is, it’s impossible to stay calm and happy if you have low tolerance levels.

    So even if you have an A/C, anti-mosquito repellent, working toilet and unlimited supply of toilet paper, and even if you don’t have to hunt for your own food anymore, be hungry for days, run for hours from tigers or sleep on a dirty and hard floor in a wooden cottage, and even if you can put on a sweater when it gets cold and take medicine when you have a cold,…

    …you have to build up your stamina and tolerance capabilities – on the physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual level. Because sooner or later, time will come when you’ll need those capabilities.

    No matter how comfortable life is, you can’t just lose your temper for every small thing that causes you a little bit of discomfort. You simply can’t be a wussy or a sheep if you want to live a happy and successful life.

    Thus you have to regularly expose yourself to moderate amounts of stress. That will help you to keep your “peaceful warrior” spirit strong.

    Soft times make people soft, and you don’t want to be soft. You want to be tough, but also nice and fair to others. Luckily there is one simple thing you can do every day to build up your tolerance levels. You can make fun of the winter (problem) with a cold morning shower (being tougher than the problems you have to face).

    Make fun of the winter with a cold morning shower.

    Cold showers

    A daily cold shower will evict the wussiness straight out of you

    A cold shower is a very uncomfortable thing. It’s totally unlike a nice hot shower that relaxes you and reminds you of how comfortable and nice life is. But in a matter of seconds, a cold shower evicts any wussiness from you. It makes you alert, your stress levels drop and you can feel it in your gut that there is a real warrior somewhere deep in you.

    After a cold shower, you know that you can do it. You feel that you can go after any goal. You find a new kind of strength in you.

    Softness goes away and the way you look at the world changes – the world is suddenly at your disposal and you’re ready to go after your goals, no matter how big they are. You only have to make sure that the water is cold enough.

    It feels great to take a cold morning shower, even if the first few ones are really tough. Besides evicting the wussiness out of you, cold showers have many other benefits. Let’s look at a few key ones.

    Your energy levels will go up

    After the initial cold shower shock, you will start to breathe more deeply and your body will get filled with oxygen. In addition to that, your heart rate will increase and speed up your blood circulation.

    You can feel all that very well. If you’re sleepy, you will immediately wake up after feeling the first drops of cold water on your skin. Yes, coffee is for pussies. :)

    Sometimes when I’m quite tired, I even take a cold shower a few times per day. It wakes me up immediately. It doesn’t last for a very long time, but the kick is good enough to begin a new activity with a fresh start.

    Then I add a cup of green tea to it and I can work for hours afterwards. Now you know what to do when you need to wake up – first a cold shower and then a cup of green tea.

    Cold showers will help you build strong willpower and resilience.

    It will build up your immune system and help with your muscle recovery

    Besides feeling more alive, the main benefit of cold showers is that they’ll help you build up your immune system. My immune system was always a bit fragile.

    Healthy diet, regular exercise, managing stress properly and cold morning showers helped me a lot in strengthening it.

    Cold showers also help with muscle soreness after severe training and they speed up the recovery. Many professional weightlifters do a few minute switches from cold to hot water.

    Hot water relaxes the muscles and cold water helps with recovery – they start with hot water and finish with cold, to prevent cramps or any shock.

    I personally don’t like that, and I also don’t take cold showers immediately after a workout because I get a headache. I prefer to wait 20 minutes to really cool down, but you have to find what works for you.

    In addition to that, cold showers are also supposed to help increase testosterone levels and help with fertility in men. Yes, cold showers will make you a strong animal.

    Your skin will become so soft and smooth

    Many people on different forums report that after taking cold showers, their skin became much prettier.

    The science behind it is that hot water makes your skin dry and on the other hand, cold water helps keep pores unclogged by not shrinking them like hot water does. Cold showers are also supposed to do wonders for your hair.

    As a man, I don’t pay that much detailed attention to my hair and skin that I could tell the difference. Nevertheless, you can find many witnesses, male and female on different health and fitness forums. If you want to improve the shine of your hair and skin, give it a try.

    Not completely convinced?

    If you aren’t completely convinced, let’s list all the benefits of cold showers in hopes that you see how the benefits outweigh a few minutes of pain. A cold shower:

    1. Evicts the wussiness straight out of you and builds up your tolerance levels
    2. Wakes you up (who needs coffee)
    3. Increases your energy levels
    4. Makes you more alert
    5. Strengthens your immune system
    6. Boosts your blood circulation
    7. Helps with muscle recovery (it can be done in combination with hot water)
    8. Increases your testosterone levels naturally (in men)
    9. Makes you more fertile (in men)
    10. Makes you more courageous and builds up stamina and resilience
    11. Flushes toxins away from your skin and makes your skin and hair shiny, strong and healthy
    12. Decreases stress levels, brightens the mood and can even help with depression
    13. Contributes to longevity and general health
    14. It’s even supposed to stimulate weight loss (body burns energy to keep you warm and there is the white fat, brown fat thing)
    15. Helps you save on your energy bill and decrease shower time, if that means something to you

    There are many scientific studies supporting these claims, I linked a few of them, but if you do more research on your own, you’ll get the whole picture.

    Hydrotherapy

    To take a step further into science, there is a thing called hydrotherapy in medicine, which uses water for different pain relief, stimulation of blood circulation and disease treatment. Therapy uses different water temperatures and pressure as the basis for the treatment.

    The most popular types of hydrotherapy are water jets, water massages and different types of baths – hot ones and cold ones. I’m sure you know most of these and love to take baths in hot Jacuzzis.

    But cold water has had a special place in hydrotherapy ever since its beginning in the 17th century. From back then to nowadays, ice baths, cold water immersion and cryotherapy have been used in physical therapy, rehabilitation and sports medicine.

    Cold treatments in medicine can especially have four physiological effects – they can serve as painkillers, vasomotor, have an anti-inflammatory effect and help with muscle relaxation.

    There is no reason why you wouldn’t give yourself a nice cold treatment purely as precaution.

    Homework

    How to start with cold showers

    There are two ways how to start with cold morning showers. You can either gradually decrease the water temperature with every shower you take or you can decide for a shock therapy and go all in.

    If you decide for the step-by-step approach, every time you shower simply decrease the water temperature to the point where you feel uncomfortable. If you decide for the shock therapy, you know what to do.

    I decided to go all in. Here are the steps, if you insist:

    • Step in the bathtub or under the shower
    • Open cold water
    • Don’t hesitate or think for even a second, just do it (if you hesitate for a second, it may take minutes before you start showering or you may even change your mind)
    • Apply shampoo and shower gel
    • Do it again, this time even with slightly colder water
    • Rub off the water and look at the winner in the mirror
    Hydrotherapy
    Hydrotherapy

    Please be careful if you have any medical conditions

    If you have certain medical conditions like heart disease, blood pressure problems or any related issues, or if you’re pregnant, you must absolutely consult your doctor before taking cold showers.

    If you don’t feel good after taking a cold shower, if you get dizzy or experience any other real health issue, stop. There is a time to push yourself and there is a time to stop. You don’t want to do anything stupid or hurt yourself. Preserve what works for you and pivot away from things that don’t.

    Now, if you don’t have a medical condition, get out of your comfort zone and give the cold shower a try. Don’t do it later tonight or tomorrow morning, do it right away; unless you’re in the office, in which case you should be working, not reading.

    Do it and be proud of yourself. Achieving anything worthwhile always requires at least some discomfort. Now go practice how to be comfortable in discomfort.

  • Easily lose weight with intermittent fasting

    I love to experiment with different diets and eating patterns. In the past 10 years, I’ve been vegetarian, vegan, fruitarian, high fat raw eater, and I also followed macrobiotic, paleo and keto diets just to name a few. I experimented with all different kinds of variations until I found my perfect diet and eating pattern. Well, it’s not perfect since I am continuously improving it, but you get the point.

    Even though I can easily adjust to a different kind of diet and stop or start eating certain types of food, I hate being hungry. I really do. If I don’t eat when I’m hungry, I get moody, my energy levels get low and it’s really a special kind of torture for me. I feel like I’m going to die. It’s probably because hunger is closely connected to feeling unsafe, and eating is one of the most primal needs.

    You can easily guess then what my initial thoughts about fasting were? Well yes, something like in spite of all the big benefits of fasting, there is no way I’m starving myself. Luckily, my experimentation nature and curiosity are much stronger than any fear, negative feeling or any displeasure or dislike.

    A few months ago, a friend mentioned intermittent fasting to me. Intermittent fasting is a light version of real fasting and starving yourself, but more about it soon. It sounded like a good idea, and even if my body, emotions and mind were kind of protesting hard, I decided to give it a try. Only for a few days, to see how hard it is for me to follow and what the results are.

    I lost 3 kg (6.6 pounds) and almost 2 % of body fat in the past two months and I love it.

    That was a result exclusively from intermittent fasting and switching from car to bike. My training levels stayed pretty much the same (excluding bike rides). Intermittent fasting definitely works for me, so maybe you should also give it a try. In this blog post, I will explain the basics of intermittent fasting and you can then decide if it’s worth trying or not, or at least research it more.

    Intermittent fasting

    What is intermittent fasting?

    Intermittent fasting is a cycle between a period of fasting and a period of non-fasting. It’s not about which food to eat and how much, but when you eat; or even more importantly, when you don’t eat. You have a strict timeframe for eating and when you don’t eat anything (not a single thing), you only drink water. There are many different types of intermittent fasting, to name the most popular few:

    • Leangains: Fast for 14 hours (women) or 16 hours (men) and eat in the 8 or 10 hour time frame
    • Alternate day fasting (ADF): 24 hours of fasting followed by 24 hours of non-fasting
    • Eat-Stop-Eat: You fast for 24 hours once or twice per week when it suits you best
    • The Warrior Diet: You fast for 20 hours every day and eat one big meal, like cavemen did
    • The 5:2 Diet: On two non-consecutive days you eat 500 calories, on other days you eat normally
    • Spontaneous meal skipping: You skip a meal when you feel like it or after overeating yourself

    There are numerous other combinations and variations. When you are in the non-fasting period, you can eat only one or two big meals or many smaller ones, you can enter the non-fasting state in the evening or in the morning, there are many variations.

    There is no other way to find the best one but by experimenting. You have to find the pattern of eating that best suits your lifestyle, the one that your body gives the best response to and, even more importantly, the one you can really follow. That’s what I did.

    I tried to fast for one whole day. Several weeks. No go, I became very moody and the only thing I could think of was food. My productivity and happiness dropped to zero. Then I tried the Leangains method and surprisingly, it was hard for me only for the first two days.

    I accommodated the diet a little bit to my previous knowledge and my individual situation. Eating late is not good for me because of the acid reflux, and I do gain weight faster if I eat at night. So I decided to fast from at the latest 5 pm. It’s also easier to fast if you include sleep time in the fasting period. So I stop eating at 4pm or 5pm and eat breakfast the next day at 8am or 9am. Many people prefer to skip breakfast, but that’s what works for me.

    I also know that eating big meals isn’t good for me. I tend to overeat and my stomach doesn’t feel well if I eat really a lot at once. So I eat several smaller meals during the non-fasting period, ideally every 4 hours, which makes 4 meals. I also have high-carb, mid-carb and non-carb days, depending on whether I’m training or not.

    The main secret to why intermittent fasting works

    There are two main theories for why intermittent fasting works. The first one is that in the fasting state, your body starts to burn fat because it lacks nutrition (energy) from food. The second one is simply because you consume fewer calories (assuming you don’t eat like a pig when you aren’t fasting).

    You can find the second argument for nearly every diet, since the theory behind is that the only thing that matters when it comes to losing weight is that you mind the calorie intake. Nevertheless, let’s look more closely at both arguments.

    The fast state

    These are two states your body can be in. The first one is the fed state, and it starts the moment you are eating all the way until the food is digested. Digesting and absorbing food can take hours. The digestion time depends on what you eat, but it’s obvious that digesting a steak takes much longer than digesting a piece of fruit.

    The second state is the so-called fasted body state. When all the food gets digested, your insulin levels get low. You enter the fasted state 8 to 12 hours after your last meal. Since there is no food to digest or absorb and your insulin levels are low, the body start to burn fat.

    You enter the fasted state 8 to 12 hours after your last meal.

    The main challenge in the whole picture is, of course, that you shouldn’t put any food into your mouth for 14 (women) or 16 (men) hours or even more if you want to get your body into the fasted state. That rarely happens if you are eating based on the standard eating pattern with several meals from breakfast to dinner. So you have to change your eating pattern to not eat for a longer period of time and that usually means skipping breakfast or dinner.

    Eating fewer calories

    You can find many arguments online that fasting really doesn’t work because of the fasting state your body is in but simply because you eat less, which equals to less calories. From my experience, you do eat less when doing intermittent fasting, because you simply can’t eat so much food in a shorter timeframe. If you eat the same quantities, you have a feeling like you’re constantly eating.

    If you want to lose weight, you have to consume fewer calories than you burn.

    The best answer to the question why intermittent fasting really works is that it doesn’t matter. Based on research, (controlled) fasting has a positive contribution to health. Calorie restriction also makes you healthier, if done in the right way. On top of that, you are losing weight. If it works, it’s better to practice it than to argue why it works or doesn’t. And if it doesn’t work for you, you move on.

    Nevertheless, the harsh reality fact is that if you want to lose weight, you have to consume fewer calories than you burn. That’s why we say that you can never out-train your diet. There is no other way. And if intermittent fasting can help you eat less, excellent.

    General benefits of fasting

    As mentioned, there are many benefits to fasting. Let’s look at the major ones.

    Fasting has an extremely important positive role in dieting, health and well-being. Regular fasting doesn’t bring only weight loss advantages, but also many other benefits to the body, mind, emotions and spirit.

    Research has shown that fasting improves your blood pressure, insulin sensitivity and inflammation. It can also reduce chronic diseases, increase longevity, help with brain health and anti-aging, all that mainly because of adaptive cellular responses to handle stress better.

    You learn to manage hunger more properly and practice self-discipline with fasting. Since I’ve been performing intermittent fasting for the past few months, I must say that I’m also managing hunger better. You learn to control your primal impulses better.

    Usually I would go crazy when hungry. Now I only go half-crazy.

    The truth is that there is probably no better alternative to practicing self-discipline than dieting. You have full control over it. It’s connected to your most primal needs and motives. It’s connected to your resistance, basically. You can experiment a lot with it (in a safe manner, of course). In general, fasting is a great way to strengthen your self-discipline.

    With fasting, you simplify your life. With fasting, you can simplify your life to a great extent by eating less frequently. You don’t eat breakfast or dinner, so it’s one less meal to cook or buy. You have to worry less about food and you have more time for other things. If you combine fasting with simplifying your meals, you may get even better results.

    Low hanging fruit

    Other recommendations for when you fast

    When you’re fasting, make sure you only drink water and non-sugared herbal tea. Really don’t consume anything, not even a small bite of an apple or any other snack. It’s not that hard once you get into the rhythm. So the first recommendation is: don’t cheat and don’t lie to yourself.

    Other recommendations when you’re fasting:

    • If you are doing anything more extreme, consult your doctor or a certified nutritionist. Especially if you have a medical condition or if you’re pregnant, talk to your doctor.
    • Drink plenty of water. Never forget to drink enough water.
    • Test your limits. Try to not eat for one more hour after your fasting period is over. Just to challenge yourself and practice self-discipline.
    • If you want your muscles to grow, eat enough protein. You can find many online resources on how many proteins to eat. Proteins will also give you a feeling of being full for a longer time.
    • When you aren’t fasting, eat healthy. Eat tons of green veggies, a moderate amount of fruit, complex carbs and many healthy fats. Avoid sugar and unhealthy fats. Don’t stuff yourself like a pig eating for the last time. Manage your emotions.
    • That will accelerate your metabolism, you’ll lose more calories and thus your weight loss progress will be faster. Not to mention that you will feel much better.
    • Don’t change your diet if you are burned out, stressed out or lack sleep. Absolutely sort that out first, otherwise things will only get worse.
    • Measure your progress. Buy yourself a smart scale, mark on the happiness index how you feel every day, pay close attention to your body and the results you’re getting. You want to follow the philosophy of validated learning to see if something works for you.
    • Listen to your body. Learn to love your body, listen to it and never go against yourself. I’m still learning how to do that.

    The first few days may be tough, but you can do it. I believe in you.

    Homework

    Give the intermittent fasting a try

    If you are trying to lose weight or improve your overall diet and health, I suggest you try the intermittent diet. First, get madly educated. Here are some resources you can begin with:

    • Nerd Fitness – A Beginner’s Guide to the Intermittent Diet
    • Bodybuilding.com – Intermittent Fasting: Science and Supplementation
    • Precise Nutrition – All About Intermittent Fasting
    • Roman Fitness System – Intermittent Fasting 101
    • Muscle for Life – The Definitive Guide to Intermittent Fasting
    • The Number One Secret to Superhuman Willpower – This article describes the benefits of fasting in general with all the links to scientific studies (in most cases). They include stronger willpower, better confidence, improved brain function, better clarity and direction, better overall health, improved motor skills and the quality of sleep, superior productivity and energy levels, stronger emotional stability, deeper life inspiration, better appearance, faster learning and, of course, weight loss. In the article, you can also find good advice on fasting in general, not necessarily intermittent fasting.
    • Reddit Intermittent Fasting Community with people sharing their troubles and experiences

    After getting educated, give it a try. As mentioned, the first few days are the hardest, but then it gets much easier. Give it a try, measure your progress and if it works, persevere, if it doesn’t, pivot to something else. Search and experiment and you will find things that work best for you.

    Even if you don’t decide for a regular fasting lifestyle, at least skip a few meals the day after you’ve overeaten. That may someday lead you to try intermittent fasting.

  • Life metrics and how to define success in life

    Many people will tell you that it’s hard to define success, that you’re operating with a very subjective category. That’s not true. They probably just don’t like maths.

    Mathematics as a study of quantities, spaces, structure and change became so very complex and complicated that most people sooner hate it rather than see the beauty in the way it describes the world; including success in life.

    Basic maths, respect for numbers and, most importantly, measuring are the key tools for every individual who wishes to make progress in personal and professional life and measure real success. You simply have to love numbers and enjoy doing basic mathematical operations when it comes to life metrics and defining success.

    While I don’t understand complex math very well, life metrics and measuring success are the things I do love and master. It’s the only way to see your real progress in life, how successful you are and the direction you’re pursuing.

    If we want to define success and actually measure it, we need metrics. Numbers and basic math operations.

    This is how you should define success in your life and also regularly measure your success progress:

    Health Money
    • Exercise frequency
    • Potential progress of illness
    • Managing your body weak points
    • Regular blood test
    • Body composition (% of fat, muscle size)
    • Aerobic endurance (run a mile, VO2 max)
    • Muscular endurance (push-up test, plank test)
    • Muscular strength (one-rep max)
    • Flexibility (yoga poses)
    • Personal income statement
      • Earned income
      • Passive income
      • Portfolio income
    • Expenses
    • Taxes
    • Monthly plus/minus
    • Net-worth
      • Assets
      • Doodads
      • Liabilities (Debt)
    Career Relationships
    • Your company position (employment contract vs. organizational chart)
    • Public influence (number of interviews, public ratings)
    • Social media influence (Klout score)
    • Work enjoyment (from 1 to 10)
    • Professional connections
    • Your legacy (number of positive ideas that influenced local/global society)
    • Number of close friends you have
    • Time spent with the people you love
    • How much you do for your partner (massage, dinner, etc.)
    • How much you get out of a relationship (giving and receiving must be in balance)
    • How often you say I love you
    • How often you give a compliment to your partner
    • How often you make love
    Competences Mind/Emotions
    • Number of books you read
    • Number of seminars you visit
    • Domain knowledge you possess
    • Number of skills you master
    • Number of tech skills
    • Number of creative ideas you have
    • Your IQ
    • Your EQ
    • How well you are able to control your mind (your maximum meditating time)
    • Your daily Happiness index
    • Number of negative thoughts daily (with use of emotional accounting)
    • Dominating cognitive distortions
    • Number of new things you tried in life
    • Number of breathtaking experiences you have encountered etc.
    • Other metrics as part of your life strategy (countries you traveled to, number of languages you speak etc.)

    How you should measure your success in life? Compare…

    • Your current metrics on different life areas
    • Your past metrics on different life areas (past month, year etc.)
    • Don’t compare yourself to others too much (only healthy competition is okay I guess)

    If the table above is confusing, don’t worry. In this blog post I will explain everything in detail. In addition to that, I’ll try to explain why regaining the love for numbers can help you a lot with succeed in life. Even more, in this article you will learn:

    • Why you should love numbers and play with them at regular intervals (as the only real definition of success)
    • Why we’re usually afraid of measuring our real progress and success in life
    • How numbers can help you avoid the fake feeling of progress
    • What and how you should measure in your personal life as success factors (with example of metrics)
    • Other practical advice and a free document you can download (success metrics matrix)
    • Why you should compare your success and metrics only to your past results, not other people

    How to define success and life metrics

    Why we usually hate numbers as metrics of success

    In the field of management and business, it has long been known that you can only manage the things that you can measure. Every professional plan and monitoring strategy first needs the analysis of the starting point, then the goal or the final outcome, followed by a preordained path, keeping all the agility along the way, and last but not least the desired speed of progress.

    All subjective evaluation in that matter is futile. Firstly, because it’s incredibly hard to admit the truth of where you are to yourself and secondly because your brain and intuition are all too limited in their abilities.

    Numbers describe by far the most realistic state, everything else is just beating around the bush and avoiding the bottom line. Because numbers reveal the truth, that’s why people are usually afraid of them.

    It’s much easier to live a lie than to admit the truth to yourself. Even harder is to measure real progress and how successful you are when you go into action because progress is usually much slower than you expect and want it to be.

    Here is the first important lesson regarding life metrics and measuring success in life. The main reasons why we love to avoid numbers and measuring how good we are:

    • We hate to admit where we stand to ourselves
    • Progress is usually much slower than we expect
    • It’s much easier to lie to yourself that things are better than they really are
    • If you don’t measure things, you can enjoy the fake feeling of progress
    • Life is already tough, so why be even harder on yourself

    Numbers are the ones that force you to face reality and accept it. Only numbers can show how successful you really are. Number are the ones defining success. It may be emotionally tough, but thankfully we have a tool for measuring progress.

    You have to see what you get out of numbers and measuring. You may lose your illusions about life and where you stand and how successful you really are, but tricking yourself into believing that you’re improving something even though you’re staying in the same place doesn’t make any sense.

    Here’s an example. A tough one, but it makes a point. People love to avoid numbers, even when things relating to their health start to get really serious. Do you know how many diabetes patients don’t measure their blood sugar levels and watch their diet? Even when people risk losing their sight or getting their limbs cut off. Their body is in real danger, but they still tend to avoid numbers that could help them manage life better.

    Vanity metrics and fake definition of success

    Besides avoiding measuring altogether, here is another more or less emotional trap of defining and measuring success. When we start measuring, we all like to measure things that are giving us a feeling of progress and fake feeling of success.

    We like to measure things that make us feel good about ourselves and how successful we are, even if it’s only a fake progress or fake success.

    Therefore you must be very careful how you set your life metrics and how you measure success in life. With vanity metrics you can lie to yourself about how hard you’re working towards the goals, but you’re actually choosing the easier path that doesn’t lead to any real results.

    You’re running in a hamster wheel and at the same time measuring your false effort only to feel a little bit better.

    Here’s an example – a scale. A lot of people get excited when, after a few days of starving, they lose a couple of kilograms, but in reality they did a lot more damage than good to their body.

    Losing water and muscle mass that results in a scale showing less weight is an unrealistic display of progress. So you always need a real combination of metrics that reflect your actual progress and success. In your personal as well as your business life.

    In business, a CEO who only monitors how much money the company has in the bank and the income statement just before the year ends in order to optimize the profits is a very lousy CEO. With all the technology available and existing science on how to monitor business progress, from the financial, customer, marketing and other business functions’ aspects, it is very sad that someone would steer the business ship with extremely limited information.

    It’s no different in personal life. A successfully set system of measuring progress and success presents an incredible advantage in life, because it enables real discipline and consistent validated learning about yourself. And validated learning means faster progress because you get insights into what works best for you.

    Only real, actionable metrics can help you figure out which approaches lead to what you want the fastest and which approaches can maybe even bring setbacks in your personal case.

    Therefore, a part of your success metrics must always also mean experimenting in the search mode.

    If we go back to the previous example of a scale. You decided to lose weight and get fit. You don’t measure only how much a scale shows, but also your fat percentage, cardiorespiratory capacity, muscle strength and endurance and so on. With the right set of metrics you can change your workout and diet every few weeks and see what gives you the fastest progress.

    The bottom line is, you want to avoid vanity metrics of success because of the following reasons:

    • You don’t want to look rich (while having lots of debt); you want to be rich.
    • You don’t want you and your family to just smile for the picture but really be happy in everyday life.
    • You don’t want your scale to show a number as low as possible, but be really fit .
    • You don’t want to just have a job, but you want a job you love and make a good living out of it.
    • You don’t want to gossip in a bar about world news and happenings, thinking how smart you are; you actually want to read a book a week and improve your knowledge and competence level.

    Fake feeling of progress

    It’s right to grow fond of numbers and measure progress and success in both personal and business life. This is the only way to admit your actual starting point to yourself (where you are), make a plan of where you want to go while staying completely flexible on how you’ll get there.

    Loving numbers and metrics can also help you measure how fast you’re progressing towards being really successful in life and, equally importantly, enable you validated learning about yourself and the World (with experiments and tests that you do). And validated learning means having insights into how to shape your superior life strategy to make sure your progress is the fastest and to achieve your maximal potential and success.

    Numbers are the ones that show that you aren’t only doing meaningless work but rather forging results. When you get to numbers and bottom-lines, all bigmouths run away. When you look at numbers you know how successful you really are.

    When talking about personal development and success in life, there are five basic areas that you should regularly measure in one way or another. What and how you will actually measure greatly depends on your life strategy, but measuring and progressing on all five areas at some point will really help you to achieve your peak potential and be ultra successful in life.

    Here are the areas you should measure and greatly contribute to success in personal and professional life:

    • Health
    • Money and career
    • Closest relationships
    • Competences
    • Mind and feelings

    I should, of course, warn you that there is a big chance that you’ll be disappointed when you first start following metrics and figure out your real state and your starting point. As I mentioned, we love to lie to ourselves about where we stand in different areas of life.

    The way psychology works is that you often describe yourself to yourself a lot better than the actual state is. This is why we all like to avoid measuring success so much.

    Still, the sooner that you admit the truth to yourself, the faster you can make progress; the truth itself often motivates you for work. And it’s not all that dark. As you will see, you stand better in some areas of life than others.

    Now let’s dive a bit deeper into each of the five mentioned areas.

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    Health

    Health is the first area where you need to make use of maths skills and measure your success in life. Much like you take your car for regular car service and much like financial statements show the health of your company, you have well-developed metrics that show how healthy your body is. A

    healthy spirit can only live in a healthy body and hundreds of pages have already been written on the benefits of a healthy lifestyle.

    There are a few key areas you should measure when it comes to your health:

    1. Potential progress of any illness you have
    2. Managing your body’s weak points
    3. Regular blood tests (one a year)
    4. Body composition (% of fat etc.)
    5. Aerobic endurance
    6. Muscular endurance
    7. Muscular strength
    8. Flexibility
    9. Other biofeedback you can gather with devices and are interested in

    In the past, I personally strongly neglected this aspect, but now I’m trying to slowly take care of my health a lot better. If you neglected your health in the past, progress is incredibly slow and demands a lot of iron-clad will, endurance and discipline.

    Statistics show that incredibly few people manage to lose weight in a healthy manner and even fewer have enough willpower to get fit.

    The state of your fitness level is often a lot worse than you imagined. One visit to the gym can quickly show that you’ve been neglecting your body for years and years. And if you decide to get into shape, it’s right that you get help from experts (personal trainers), together with the right metrics, professional work programme and consistent measuring of progress.

    Progress can be slow, but in a few weeks, you will see the first results, as long as you stick to the set training program. The good news is that the first results will motivate you to continue on your path of becoming fitter. This is how you become more and more successful regarding your health and fitness.

    If you’re a newbie in taking care of your health, please really do start with certified trainers who have good references. Otherwise you can do serious damage to your health, especially in the gym. Afterward, when you take care of strong fitness foundations with a personal trainer and you’re ready to exercise on your own, there are many apps (nutrition trackers, exercise trackers, etc.) that can help you measure your real progress.

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    Money and career

    By far the clearest benefits of measuring things in your personal life are shown in the financial field. Money is already connected to numbers by its very nature; it’s after all a piece of paper with a couple of numbers printed on it. And you either manage your money or you always have a lack of it. That’s usually the rule.

    Money is definitely one of the success factors in life. And you either manage your money or you always have a lack of it.

    There are two categories you should measure when it comes to your money and how successful you are:

    • Personal income – How much money you make and keep after your spendings
    • Net-worth – How many assets you own (after deducting all the debt)

    If you’re good at acquiring and managing money, both numbers should be increasing over your lifetime. There can be temporary situations when they don’t. You start your own business, an accident happens, you make a bad investment, a financial crisis comes, etc. It’s a part of life. Remember, being broke is a temporary state, but being poor is a state of mind.

    But only having enough financial literacy, together with proper measuring and management, can tell you if you’ve made a stupid decision regarding your money or were just unlucky; and how much damage has been done to your wallet and financial situation.

    Well, despite the occasional ups and downs, you want to be in as good financial health as possible. Thus you want to manage your money very carefully. If you want to do that, you have to measure.

    As with all the measuring, a consistent analysis of where you are financially comes first. You wouldn’t believe it, but many people don’t have a clue. I hope you are not one of them. Technology today enables you to track your money consumption and your net worth very easily. You should always know what kind of a financial shape you’re in and how your spending habits look.

    The interesting thing is that when you first start to track your spending habits, a few additional good things usually happen:

    • A consistent analysis quickly shows that you spend way too much money on certain things you don’t need. Expensive coffees, snacks, lumber, clothes, You get data about where and how you can save more money.
    • Additionally, budgeting, entering and tracking every individual cost contributes to you giving another thought to whether you really need something new to buy. As a result, you spend less money, especially on stupid things. You start to manage your potential emotional purchases At the end of the day, the main idea is that you spend less than you earn.
    • You start paying yourself first, which is the most important rule of successfully handling money. You become so intrigued by personal finance and managing your money that you want to take care of your investments before you spend your money on anything else.

    Even more demanding, but consequently also a lot more useful, is managing your wealth and seeing how your net worth grows. You can quickly realize that achieving decent yield with your investments is incredibly difficult, and increasing your wealth is a strenuous and long-lasting process.

    Actually, there are two paths to financial abundance in your personal life:

    • You take care of income explosion and cost control by starting your own business, for example, and consequently make so much money with one move that all your future financial needs are covered. It’s a risky business, but it can be done.
    • You slowly and carefully make sure that your savings grow and that you make good investments. This path is a lot more difficult if you don’t measure your progress regularly. But luckily a slightly bigger net worth every month means a lot bigger wealth in the long term, if you invest smartly enough.

    Again, it all depends on your life strategy. Nevertheless money is definitely one factor of success. Thus you should become really good at managing it.

    Career

    Besides money, career is also one of the life areas where metrics and management are a necessity. It’s slightly more difficult to measure career progress, because you also have to use slightly more subjective metrics, but it can be done.

    There are many metrics you can choose from and they greatly depend on your career goals. Examples are how much you earn, your position in the company, public influence, social media influence, how much you enjoy your work, the number of professional connections you have, etc. If your career is important to you, you can always find a set of metrics that show realistic progress in your career life.

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    Your closest relationships

    The quality and depth of every (intimate) relationship depends primarily on the number of hours you spend with the person enjoying positive, playful emotions. This includes planning, creating things together, following common goals, doing things you both love, relaxing and enjoying life and, in the case of intimate relationships, we can also add making love.

    The only time that really counts and contributes to the relationship quality and depth is the time you spend together full of positive feelings. Fighting or sitting in front of the TV doesn’t count. Everyone immediately knows when there is positive time spent together with other people and when there isn’t.

    Once you measure how many quality hours you spend with your intimate partner and other people you love, you can quickly get embarrassed. You realize how people who mean the most to you in the world you sometimes unintentionally neglect and consequently also don’t live the entire potential of the relationship.

    Many times, you may even have a false belief of how much quality time you spend with the people you love. But when you subtract sleep, working hours, commuting, housework, fighting, you may find that you spend way less time with people you love than you should. If you don’t measure, you don’t know.

    A simple analysis can show that things are even worse. After analyzing data, you may figure out that you spend more time with people that give you headaches in life and aren’t even close to you (like work, toxic relationships, etc.) rather than spending it with people who bring love, happiness and joy into your life.

    Maybe because you need emotional drama in life, maybe because you’re addicted to work, or for whatever other reason. It’s something you don’t want to do. Numbers help you manage such things.

    Measuring how you spend your time also shows your priorities and values. Only by actually measuring how you spend your time can you figure out what your values or priorities in life are and where they’re leading you. If your close relationships aren’t at the very top of your priorities, there’s a big possibility that you have lousy relationships in your life. And it’s hard to be successfull in life without deep and meaningful relationships.

    Besides measuring how much quality time you spend with the people you love, there are many other things you can measure. Here are a few examples:

    • How much you do for your partner (investment in a relationship)
    • How much you get out of a relationship (giving and receiving must be in balance)
    • How often you say I love you
    • How often you give a compliment to your partner
    • How often you make love
    • Number of close relationships you have in life

    Same goes for children. Children spell love as T-I-M-E. Spent quality time together. And not only children, same goes for all other relationships you care about.

    Now, the point of measuring is not to take all the romance out of relationships. It’s not like you have to write down every single thing you do and every minute you invest. It’s more about taking a week or two every once in a while to observe yourself and other people you care about, and becoming aware of what’s going on with your relationships based on fundamental relationship metrics.

    Are you getting closer to the people you love, or is there an increasing distance? Do you enjoy the time you spend with the people you love or are you constantly fighting? Love won’t miraculously solve your personal relationships; proper management (day by day) will.

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    Competences

    Now let’s move on to developing your personal competences. The first thing you should measure is how much time you spend on the idiot box, also known as the multi-media ad player or even better known as the television, and how much time you spend lost on the internet.

    They are the two biggest enemies of your personal development and progress and success in life. Including acquiring new competences. You’ll be surprised at how much of your time they take. Unless you’ve already dealt with these big time wasters.

    An average person spends at least 10 to 20 hours a week in front of the TV, programming themselves into a diligent consumer, wasting their precious life. The only people who get anything from the television are those on the other side of the screen.

    In the second step, compare the time you spend watching TV and browsing the internet to how many hours a month you invest in your knowledge and the development of your other competences – by studying, going to seminars, reading books and similar. You’ll also probably be surprised.

    An average person is close to zero investment in themselves, those who give their best maybe get a few hours a week. That’s very lousy considering how many competences and talents an individual can develop and how important they are in the knowledge-based society.

    Compare 0 or 1 hour of reading per week to 20 hours of watching TV. It’s a very bad ratio.

    Once you openly admit to yourself how little you invest in yourself and your progress, you quickly change your perspective on time wasters. Remember, you should invest into yourself, because it’s the best and ultimate investment that exists.

    There’s power in knowledge, and in the creative knowledge society, you strongly lag behind if you don’t invest into yourself. In the long term, whining about how tough and unfair life is won’t help at all, but competences undoubtedly will. With competences, the world is your oyster. Only with competences you can really succeed in life.

    Here is what you should be measuring when it comes to developing your competences and success in life:

    • How much time you spend reading (and other ways of developing competences)
    • Domain knowledge you possess
    • The number of skills you master
    • Your IQ (if you dare)
    • Your EQ

    Success in life

    Controlling your mind

    And finally the most difficult one. The quality of your life and how successful you are strongly depends on whether you control your mind or your mind controls you. That’s the basis of Buddhism and a few other, especially Eastern, religions and philosophies.

    The main tool of strengthening control over your mind is meditation. Measure how much time you can spend sitting in the same spot, focused on one point (or thought or your chakra) and you’ll find how strong your control over your mind is.

    If you don’t meditate regularly, you’ll be very disappointed. After a few minutes, thoughts will start forcefully entering your mind, parts of your body will start itching, you’ll feel incredibly uncomfortable.

    The less time you can do this for, the more your mind controls you. If something is not really itching you. ;) The more the mind controls you, the more negative thoughts this usually means. The more negative thoughts, the lower the quality of life. The more suffering in life, the lower the level of consciousness.

    The positive thing is that the more you meditate in life, the more you strengthen the muscle of control over your mind. And if you do all this with an inner smile and not with struggle, you’ll also be able to live a much happier life in general. You learn to carry the inner smile with you.

    Here is a simple measurement then. The longer you can meditate, the more control you have over your mind. The more successful you are in life. Now sit down somewhere quiet and test yourself. Face the ultimate metric of mind control.

    Taking feelings into account

    Your feeling are closely connected to your thoughts, so here’s the place where we should mention them. People love to neglect their feelings. The best way to give more attention to your feelings is by regularly observing them, listening to them, understanding them as well as managing them.

    The best way of listening to your feelings better is the so-called Happiness Index. Every morning or evening you mark how you feel on a scale.

    In the next step, you try to figure out why you feel the way you feel. If you figure out that negative feelings are the consequence of negative thoughts (which they usually are), then it’s right that you face negative thinking.

    The best way for this is the so-called emotional accounting as one of the central tools of cognitive psychology.

    To sum up, here are a few things you can measure when it comes to your mind and emotions:

    • How well you’re able to control your mind (your maximum meditating time)
    • Your daily Happiness index
    • Number of negative thoughts daily (using emotional accounting)
    • Dominating cognitive distortions

    You can’t do everything at once, and the first steps

    Not everything can happen at once. Setting the goal that you will integrate all the life metrics at once and measure how successful you are is unrealistic. You have to make progress step by step, preferably by focusing on one area.

    Too many demanding goals lead to you doing a lot of things badly, which is the same as doing nothing. So step by step, gradually and slowly start with basic metrics in one area and then add new metrics of success. Once you master one field, you move on to the next one.

    It’s by far the best to start with health, since improving health always very positively influences all other areas. But you can also choose the area where you’re currently facing the most problems or you’re doing the worst.

    Once you use measuring and life metrics to integrate new behavioral patterns into your life, area after area, you can also notice the incredible transformation of the overall quality of your life. All the effort that you put in slowly pays off.

    You must never forget that with time, the hard road becomes easy and the easy road becomes hard. Choose the more difficult road that leads into a brighter future of your life. And the more difficult path is the one supported by actual metrics and measuring real progress.

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    When it comes to success, compete only with yourself

    Please take another look at the table below. It should be immediately obvious to you why success is not a subjective category at all and that you can indeed measure it, but the only thing that makes sense when measuring your success level is to compete with your previous self.

    Compare your position now with your position a month or a year ago. That’s how you should measure your success; make sure you’re becoming better version of your self step by step. Make sure you improve a little bit every day and every month and every year. That’s how you will become successful and great.

    But by comparing yourself too much to other people, you’re doomed from the very beginning. Why? Because there will always be someone better than you are, in every single area of life. Other people should be a kind of a reference point for you and people who perform better should motivate you to become even better version yourself, but when you compare yourself to others too much, you can quickly start putting yourself in the victim and self-pity mindset, ruminating how life is unfair.

    For example, you can’t compete with someone who inherited millions in assets, if you’re starting from financial ground zero. You can’t compete with someone who has been an athlete their whole life, with the right sportsman DNA and incredible muscle memory, if you didn’t ever exercise. You can’t compare yourself to a monk meditating for hours after your first meditation.

    Compare your metrics with the ones from the previous month or year. Compete only with your previous self. That’s how you can measure your real success in life.

    Health* Money**
    • Exercise frequency
    • Potential progress of illness
    • Managing your body weak points
    • Regular blood test
    • Body composition (% of fat, muscle size)
    • Aerobic endurance (run a mile, VO2 max)
    • Muscular endurance (push-up test, plank test)
    • Muscular strength (one-rep max)
    • Flexibility (yoga poses)
    • Personal income statement
      • Earned income
      • Passive income
      • Portfolio income
    • Expenses
    • Taxes
    • Monthly plus/minus
    • Net-worth
      • Assets
      • Doodads
      • Liabilities (Debt)
    Career** Relationships*
    • Your company position (employment contract vs. organizational chart)
    • Public influence (number of interviews, public ratings)
    • Social media influence (Klout score)
    • Work enjoyment (from 1 to 10)
    • Professional connections
    • Your legacy (number of positive ideas that influenced local/global society)
    • Number of close friends you have
    • Time spent with the people you love
    • How much you do for your partner (massage, dinner, etc.)
    • How much you get out of a relationship (giving and receiving must be in balance)
    • How often you say I love you
    • How often you give a compliment to your partner
    • How often you make love
    Competences* Mind/Emotions*/**
    • Number of books you read
    • Number of seminars you visit
    • Domain knowledge you possess
    • Number of skills you master
    • Number of tech skills
    • Number of creative ideas you have
    • Your IQ
    • Your EQ
    • How well you are able to control your mind (your maximum meditating time)
    • Your daily Happiness index
    • Number of negative thoughts daily (with use of emotional accounting)
    • Dominating cognitive distortions
    • Number of new things you tried in life
    • Number of breathtaking experiences you have encountered etc.
    • Other metrics as part of your life strategy (countries you traveled, number of languages you speak to etc.)
    • * Internal asset – Can grow only linear. Learn more
    • ** External asset – Can grow exponentially. Learn more

    Below, you can download the table I call the life success metric matrix (PDF), completely for free:

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    Enjoy numbers and monitor the progress that you’ll definitely be proud of! And keep track of this blog, because in the future, a lot of time will be devoted to the actual metrics of each individual area of life. This is the only way to really measure your success.

    Homework

    Now you know how to define success and measure it, so take action

    Now it’s time for homework. Knowledge without action is useless. So here’s what you should do:

    • Choose one life area (health, money, career, relationships, competences, mind/emotions). If you don’t know where to begin, start with your health or wherever you lag behind the most.
    • Set some basic metrics of success for the chosen life area. Below is the summary of metrics you can start measuring as the beginning in different life areas.
    • Set a system of how you will measure your progress (Excel, apps, frequency,) and set all the necessary reminders that will help you keep consistency.
    • Also, prepare a list of books you will read in the chosen life area, so you will acquire new knowledge and upgrade your set of metrics when you’re ready. Use the rule that you always go straight for the best knowledge.
    • Measure your progress at regular intervals.
    • After every measurement, make sure you do self-reflection and make a decision on what you will stop doing, what you will start doing and what new experiments you will try.
    • Enjoy your progress and be proud of the discipline you’re keeping. Not many people can pull that off.
    • Never compare yourself to other people. Only compare your progress to your previous self.

    Do you want to be more successful in life?

    Read more about the massive success formula.